25 year old daughter is dating married man is there anything to say that will stop her?

My daughter has informed me she is dating a married man, she loves him. He has a 2 yr. Old and 6 mo.

Old, wealthy and he is her boss. She makes great money and loves her job. What can I say:?

Or does she need to go through this, me here for support? Asked by molly255 22 months ago Similar questions: 25 year daughter dating married man stop Lifestyle > Relationships.

Similar questions: 25 year daughter dating married man stop.

To be completely blunt (and you already know this because you know your daughter like the back of your hand)... No.. there isn't a single thing you can say or do that will make her change her mind about this man. She is in love, (or extreme passion, which some will say is infatuation) and adores his children as well, I'm sure. He makes good money, and is her BOSS (? .. which will make things even MORE difficult as things progress) so they see eachother every day (as we all know we are at work sometimes more than we are at home) so it's highly unlikely anything that ANYONE says (Mom/friends/co-workers/etc.) could make her stay away from this married man.

As we all know, it takes two -- let's hope he makes the right decision and realizes he can not have 'his cake and eat it too' and she will realize that he has some unfinished business to take care of before she looks at him as a serious life path. Women, even at 25 years of age, eventually get tired of being #2 and should this relationship progress, I'm sure she'll demand that he comes to terms with his life, grow up, be real and make a choice.As her mother, and again, knowing her better than anyone in the world, be there for her. With that being said, I think you should ALWAYS tell her how YOU feel about the situation, as turning a blind eye and agreeing with her choice (if you don't like it) is not being fair to you, her and the relationship between you two.

If you don't like her choice, state how you feel and tell her, "I've said how I feel, what my thoughts are and how I would want things to happen -- now I won't keep harping on this situation, as you are an adult, but as your mother, it wouldn't be fair for me not to tell you exactly how I feel." (or something to that extent). I'm not sure if she is the type that the more you tell her "don't do it", she turns around and does the exact opposite out of spite, but every time you two talk, I'd definitely suggest NOT bringing up her relationship. Just be her Mom.. she has enough friends.. and there will be a time where she will need just that.. her Mom..

There is nothing you can do about this situation. She won't listen to you. However, you can tell her that he won't leave his family for her.

He just wants to get laid. And when he is through, he will not only leave her, but he will fire her. She should be told that he and her are hurting the wife and his innocent children.

And if by a very slim margin he divorces his wife, it will cost him dearly. He will have to pay child support. The children will suffer pyschological damage and heartbreak because of them.

Once a cheater, always a cheater, so she can expect the same treatment she had given his former wife and the children. You can also tell her that you love her and will always be there for her, but you have lost respect for her and is disappointed in her and her behavior. I am sorry you are going through ordeal yourself.It must be very hurtful for you.

She will do what she will do, but you can let her know how you feel and give her insight into what is going to happen and maybe she will give some thought to what you said. I keep remembering what my friend did when she was faced with the same situation as you are in. She wrote a letter to the wife telling her of the affair between her daughter and her husband.

Subsequently,her daughter came home crying with a black eye and other bruises. Of course, he broke up with her, choosing his wife and family. I don't know if the daughter knew her mother wrote the letter or not.

My friend said she couldn't deal with the children being hurt like that, which included her own daughter. I suspect that no one knew it was my friend who wrote that letter..

You could try this You could try this: The statistics are that a husband that cheats during his first marriage has a 97% chance of cheating during a second marriage. So even if he DOES divorce wife #1, and there is any money left, and then he DOES marry your daughter, then there's still a near certainty he will cheat on her. Heard this from a real family-life scientist so it's probably quite close to the truth..

Being an adult she has every freedom to decide what she want.

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