You are thinking too hard. File for divorce. Do not file for separation, file for DIVORCE.
During the divorce proceeding, the house will be sold. That will be ordered by the judge. You are putting the cart before the horse, dude.
You want to move out and then file for divorce, which will be very expensive. Just file for divorce and let the judge handle it.
I have NO idea about your financial situation, none at all. But you want advice anyway? Okay, retain an EXCELLENT matrimonial Attorney.
I have no idea what "financially hold it down until I file for divorce" means. What are you holding down? The house which you just purchased and the mortgage for which you qualified?
Other than that - back to the excellent Attorney.
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