Advice needed...please no judgements?

Stop worrying about the guy who used you for a part-time toilet and his wife. Worry about your child. He is entitled to financial support from both parents.

You do not have the authority to deny him that right.

Go to court. You don't have to make waves, but he brought whatever wrath his wife unfolds upon himself. Maybe he will be compliant and she need never find out, since not hurting her seems to be your aim.

Regardless, he has an obligation and the baby deserves support from his father.

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