Am I playing with fire here? This is very serious, seeking serious responses.?

COME ON! Why is everone being so hard onthe girl? There are worse things in life than infidelity.

For all you judgemental folks, remember, "let he is without sin cast the first stone." First of all, if the woman isn't having sex with her husband, why shouldn't he cheat? That being said, it's expensive to get divorced, so he'll likely stay with her,because of the money.

So don't get your hopes up. However, I do understand your plight. And your actions.

The deed is done, let's do damage contol. You need to protect yourself in this situation. First, tell NO ONE of the affair, especially his wife, you will lose that one, and you'll be out of a job, and Jamie will suffer too, since he seems to be very attached to you.

Deny everything if confronted. I wish you good luck, you deserve all the happiness life has to offer, plus, it might work out. Don't listen to all these judgemental people here, go with your gut feel.

You deserve the love of a man who is not entangled with another woman. There are many single guys out there who can provide you an exciting life, and even a future family of your own. I know that deep down, your love for the kid figures into this, and the romantic fantasy that the three of you can become a family.

Well... like everyone says, this is a big problem. If they are to divorce, let it be because that's the path they choose. Don't let yourself be any of the reasons.

Do you really want to be that person? The other woman who wrecks a home? Of course their relationship is strained, but why would he work on his marriage when he has a young, pliant hottie like you to care for his child on the cheap and satisfy his sexual needs?

Of course he wants you - he wants to trade in his current problems for the next best model. Ten years down the road, you'll be traded in. How does it feel?

What goes around, comes around. You are at a pivotal point in your life, a fork in the road: Are you going to choose this path with this man that can have so very many negative outcomes? Or will you choose a different path that frees you from this family, creating something altogether different and unknown, but with many positive potentials?

It really is up to you.

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