Are hen-pecked husbands good men?

I consider hen-pecking a spouse a form of abuse, and I advise my clients exactly that.

In a good marriage decisions are mutual and both work for th good of the whole. Neither should be barking commands or letting themselves be bossed around. If they respect each other they don't act out in public no matter what.

That said some people are subservient by nature and they will usually find a dominant partner, while overbearing people will seek a submissive partner. In the end it is what ever floats your boat.

I don't understand men who acquiesce to such a relationship - I am a man, perhaps a man out of fashion, but a man . . .

I wear the pants in my family - my wife wears the pockets, but I wear the pants.

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