Are you good at fighting or you the shut up and walk away type? Let's say with a loved one or family member, or friend?

Let's say with a loved one or family member, or friend. Asked by FrenchFry 17 months ago Similar questions: fighting shut walk type loved family member friend Family.

Similar questions: fighting shut walk type loved family member friend.

I'm not good at fighting - I would say that I’m the peacekeeper in the family. I hate to see family members arguing or anyone else for that matter. As far as personal matters, I tend to be quiet --- until I’ve got my back to the wall - then watch out!.

I walk away and cool down I do not want to say something I might be sorry about later. My children keep it up and then I may say something like be quiet! Or you need to go I am getting upset but they do not know when to leave!

So I will go outside and leave them sitting there by themselves :) .

Fighting I hate fighting with people so I will usually walk away especially if it's with a family member. When it has come to my friends, I usually let them know that I am mad in a nice way and if they start getting an attitude, I get really mad and upset and I end up arguing. I can argue forever, I just hate to..

I spent 16 years as a bartender in some rough little redneck bars where the nearest law enforcement help took around 15 or 20 minutes to get there, if any were available......then, I would not argue with people.....I had to have control of the bar and did so with physical force......fortunately, I was from there and already had a reputation as someone who took no stuff from someone else, so once I initially let the bar customers know how things were expected to be they generally went along smoothly. Now, however, I am a bit older and I see things a little more objectively, if backed into a corner I would still defend myself or my family but I choose to walk away 9 out of 10 times now and find the person in the mirror much easier to deal with. With my family (we are of Italian descent) we enjoy a good stimulating conversation but don’t really argue.....with others, I just walk away usually....sometimes I speak my mind and then walk away ;~P .

1 i'm pathalogically avoidant of confrontation, when someone starts yelling at me i'll let them wear themselves out and wait til they are through or i'll walk/drive away. This user has been banned from Askville.

1 i'm pathalogically avoidant of confrontation, when someone starts yelling at me i'll let them wear themselves out and wait til they are through or i'll walk/drive away.

I'm pathalogically avoidant of confrontation, when someone starts yelling at me i'll let them wear themselves out and wait til they are through or i'll walk/drive away.

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