Babys father denying paternity. Worried about my daughter?

It sounds like you have the Child Support Enforcement Agency involved. Let him have fun with them. If it was a properly done test (and not something you got from the grocery store), he's going to be obligated to pay child support, and will have rights to custody and/or visitation.

It's not going to be recognized that the kid isn't his.

Sounds like he's pretty angry with you. You need to know that in some way you have hurt him deeply and he is acting like a ******/coward in response. You have to be around this dude for the rest of your childs life.

Better you get to the bottom of this thing soon so you don't have to waste years being miserable. You have to get him to tell the truth. Perception dictates reality, and backstabbers dictate gossip.

Make no mistake, I am not saying that you have to have sex with him; or lead him on. Im saying you have to get him to a humane place where you guys can have peace with one another. It's the difference between raising a dysfuntional child and a healthy child.

The arguing and fighting will prove itself futile when you child becomes a teen. First things first make sure you put the child first in every scenerio when dealing with hem. Never let him see you petty or vengeful.

Lead by example. Ask him honestly, what did I do to you. Let him vent, even if you think his reasoning is crazy.

Let him vent without responding before he is done. Let him get it all out. If you did something you know was wrong ask for his forgiveness, even if he does not ask for yours.

Be genuine. The second thing you have to do is know that you are not kissing up to him. Revenge is like taking poison and expecting the other person to die.

You need to know if this dude is really hurt and trying to get past something or is he a nut job. Most often people do things out of emotion or just a lack of knowing how to respond. Once they face their truth they can move on and grow (up).

If they are crazy, aint no taking them from that point, they will get stuck on anything that can distract them from themselves. Once you figure out which dude your'e dealing with, you can start the healing between you and this friend who you shared yourself with and procreated with; even it that means leaving his environment because he's crazy. Because honestly, the things you've been through with this guy is abusive emotionally, mentally and more.

When guys act like this (back and forth) it's usually because you are not the person they intended to have a child with. If that's the case be willing to deal with that fact, with co-parenting in mind. Fear is usually bigger than the real situation.

Be the example.

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