Desperately need some answers! Why is my husband doing this?

Obviously he's not worthy of you and your daughters time, he's deceived and manipulated you whilst you where carrying his child if he really cared so much he never would if crossed that line, he's been selfish only thinking about him self and his own needs and feeling if you and your child Are not good enough for him alone then he's most definitely not good enough for you both, he as no excuse for is actions regardless of what he may say, at the end of the day he should of been putting all of his time and effort into being a husband and a father instead he was sitting on facebook chatting up other girls when he should of been helping you with his daughter and bonding with her I know your thinking of your child and what is best for her In the long run, but in the long run she will eventually relies the past as I doubt this is something that will never demise and it will play a part in your child's life when she grows up and is old enough to understand what as happend in the past and im sure it will be somthing that will continue in the future and not only is it you that feels cheated by this man you your daughter will also feel the same, she will feel let down, and as the saying goes once a cheat always a cheat and he's cheated you both not deny him access to his child if if wants to be in her life but you have got to lay the facts straight out in front of him and let him know were you stand and let him know what he as done. He's not only cheated he's let the both of you down big Time and as failed at being good honest man husband and father at the same time.

Get him out of your intimate life. DUH! Then, do nothing illegal for him.

If that means he gets deported, so be it. But first, tell your family that you and they have been duped, that you are sorry but that you thought he was on the up and up. The problem is that your daughter will need to know who her father is and will need to gain some understanding of why he is not in her life.

When that time comes, tell her the truth and explain that father wasn't able to be truthful with you.

I cant really gove you an answer,but what I can give you is a way to a solution, that is you have to find the anglde that you relate to or peaks your interest. A good paper is one that people get drawn into because it reaches them ln some way.As for me WW11 to me, I think of the holocaust and the effect it had on the survivors, their families and those who stood by and did nothing until it was too late.