Did your marriage suffer after the baby arrived? If so, what were the specific reasons? If not, what made your marriage solid?

It's not a big deal to wait until after 30. Doctors recommend that women have a child before 35. But even after 35 she can still have a child but it may be harder to get pregant.

Fertility clinics offer assistance with that.

This is something that should have been discussed BEFORE marriage. If you disagree on when to have kids, then only you can settle it. No one else can.

Neither of you can force the other to have kids at a specific time.

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