Do men who have girlfriends brag to their buddies about women they've had sex with behind their gf's back even if they really didn't do it?

In terms of flings, guys that brag generally try not to lie to much with guys because a guy will humiliate another guy in a heartbeat by trying to confront them, demand proof... etc. To be honest, I would have to know the EXACT conversation, as syntax is very effective in dictating the nature. I'm gonna say odds are good that he did mess around with the girl. He wouldn't be bragging about a new girl to his buddies unless they seen him and her together.

Guys like bragging about the output of their girlfriend first, making their buddies get jealous that they get great action on a regular basis. Even if he was lying, he seems more interested in looking like a 'playa' than dating, so I say: MISSION ACCOMPLISHED! If he is willing to lie about something petty to a friend, then he will have no issue lying about something important to cover his ass.

I can tell you, lying or not, you 100% did the right thing by dumping this guy. If he was lying, it shows a massive lack of maturity and class. I've known a few guys who did this, but they were in high school and extremely immature, and even that is no justification - I never knew men who did this once they grew up.

Truthfully, and this is solely my opinion, I've found my male friends to be much more committed once in relationships than my female friends, who are restless and fickle. Again, only my experience. I've been extremely lucky to know high quality men almost all my life.So, if men do this, I believe it's a small segment and I believe it shows you straight off that this guy isn't worth your time or energy.

I find that repulsive. If some guy said "I was lying" to me to try to justify his telling his buddies he slept with a girl, that tells me a lot about him. Either way, you would be with a liar or a cheat.

Which one do you prefer? I would go with "neither." By the way, if he is being truthful about lying and was willing to lie about sleeping with this girl, what makes you think he didn't lie about you to his buddies before you agreed to date him?

And by the way, I do not think in any way, shape, or form that he was lying. Straight up, I think he cheated on you. I don't mean this to be disrespectful or hurtful, but I want you to stay strong, don't take him back, and don't waste any more time on this guy.

A creep is a creep. It sounds to me he was cheating and proud of it and was caught in his lie and tried foolishly to cover it up instead of manning up for once and admitting his guilt.So basically, he cheated, he bragged about it, and then he lied. S insistence that all men brag to their friends about girls they don't sleep with is WRONG and frankly, this is why a few bad apples ruin it for all men, who get a bad rep when it comes to relationships.

If the guys he hangs out with do this, then good riddance that you're done with this guy. Who knows what else he told them. Good luck and find yourself a good man, you're worth it.

This is coming from a guy. There are a lot of jerks out there who like to brag about their so-called conquests. Sometimes what they say is true and sometimes it is only in their imagination.In a relationship, someone has to keep it exciting.

Guys, just like girls need to feel as though they are hot and wanted. Let that part of your relationship slip and you are asking for trouble. Most guys, unless they are feeling pangs of inadequacy don’t brag about sleeping around.

They have no need to build up their ego. In your case, you will need to do all the evaluations. Perhaps he did sleep around.

If he did it may never happen again; although I would not count on that. You need to decide; nobody else can do it for you. Some important questions you need to ask yourself.

Assume That He Did Cheat: 01. Can you forgive him? 02.Do you think you can ever trust him again?

03. Can you try not to throw it up in his face during an argument? 04.Do you have a future with him?

Then think about this. There are no guarantees in any relationship. Along the road there will always be rocky situations; infidelity, money, poor judgement.

Is this the person you cold count on? If you were together and had an accident while driving his car, would he first ask how you are, or how his car was? Bottom line is that nobody should sway how you feel.

In the end, you are the most important. If you are happy, you can make those around you happy. If not, then look out.

Even if he was just kidding around, it seems to me that he has an ego problem. So look out!

I can't speak for all men; but, for what it's worth, men just don't think usually like that. They almost never talk about relationships or gals, except sometimes to remark on their looks. When they talk together it's about sports or politics or cars or if they are more geekish computers or stereos or technical stuff.

I suppose some guys sometimes talk about success with gals; but, it really isn't common and probably there was something that brought the subject up and led to a boasting contest. Men do try to top each other's stories.

Wow... Okay, as a guy, please let me tell you that if some guy (or one of my "buddies") is telling me how he got with some other chick when I know he's in a relationship with YOU, then I'm not interested in being his friend. Two reasons: 1. I was raised a gentleman, and gentleman don't talk about intimate stuff like that.

Even with my best friend, while yes, we've touched on it (like "have you ever ___ with your wife? "), but never gotten "in depth," and frankly, that's kind of creepy. 2.

A guy who is okay with telling his friends that he's sleeping with another girl isn't worth it any way. You're instinct is totally right, he probably did sleep with some other girl - but even if he DIDN'T that doubt will always be there. There's no way for him to prove that he did or didn't so I'd take him literally at his word.

Besides, if he feels like he needs to lie to his friend about stuff that never happened has security issues to begin with - which has LOSER stamped all over it. Please know that, no, not all of us guys talk about the intimate stuff we do with our girl. It's inappropriate to "kiss and tell," and a guy worth staying with will keep the things you guys do behind closed doors, well, behind closed doors.

Hearing your story makes me frustrated for you. You don't deserve this kind of treatment! Lying and saying you slept with a girl or X number of girls is something common in junior high and high school with certain groups of guys.At that time in their lives, guys are wanting to fit in, and if some guy says he's slept with a girl, and he is popular/admired, others will try to say they did too.

However, after high school, this thing drops considerably. I'm sure it happens some in college, but probably rarely after that. Above all else, it's wrong to lie.

I want you to think about what kind of man lies about this sort of thing. He's looking for an ego boost to his masculinity from his buddies. However, real masculinity has nothing to do with how many girls a guy has slept with (or if he has ever slept with a woman).

It's about integrity, being strong enough to stand up for what you believe, standing up for others who need support, keeping oneself personally fit (mentally, socially, physically, and emotionally). This guy sounds immature to me. I think successful relationships are focused more on the "we, us, our" mentality rather than a me/mine kind.

It sounds like this guy is overly focused on his own priorities rather than the priority of the relationship succeeding. It sounds to me like this guy is immature: 1. He has lied about something, and that's immature; or 2.

If he has cheated, that's not just immature, but dangerous and destructive to the relationship. To satisfy your desire to know, I recommend shining light on the situation. Call this girl he says he has slept with, and in as non-emotional way as possible (I know this is difficult), say: " I know this is weird for me to ask, but do you like name of guy?

{get an answer} The reason I'm asking is that I heard some things and I'm wondering if they are true..." Unless she has some overwhelming reason to lie herself, you will probably get a truthful answer. And I'd recommend asking in person, because you will probably see in her body language whether she is lying or telling the truth. Also listen to her tone of voice.

It's hard for people to censor their non-verbals. And girl, there are nice guys out there! We just get passed up too much for the jerks.

And truthfully, both you and the guy win when nice guys DON'T finish last. Keep looking, there's nice guys out there waiting to meet you!

From my experience, guys usually don't brag about who they slept with unless it really happened cause its worse for your friends to find out the truth in the end. And then you'll never hear the end of it from your friends making fun of you, teasing, etc. Also, I don't see the reason for him to brag to his friends to get an ego boost when he's already got a girlfriend? Unless it really happened and he wanted to let his friends know.

But, you never know what really happened without any proof besides him making you look bad to his friends.

Well,I for one does not. But seeing that he believed you were not at home,he's 75% right.

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