Do you prefer casual sex or committed sex?

I have had my fair share of casual sex, but I prefer relationship sex because it's far better, in quality. When there is an emotional connection, it's just more intense and pleasurable, not to mention, if a guy cares about you, he's probably more likely to care whether you are enjoying yourself, so is more likely to give more foreplay, oral sex, what have you. Also, they have had the time to find out your preferences, yes.

Yeah, it's just way better.

For me, casual sex is way better than commited sex in a relationship. Why that is, really makes me wonder. I've had two boyfriends in my life time and each relationship lasted for more than two years.

The sex was not so great in either relationship. The best sex I ever had was in a casual fling with no commitment and very little emotional involvement. Maybe it was good because in this type of arrangement the fantasies can just run free.

The fact that I am a female probably has nothing to do with it. I know a lot of men that prefer commited sex over casual sex. To me, emotional involvement is a huge turn-off sexually.

However, it is true, that I keep my sexual encounters and partners to a minimum. The double-standard still exists and women are not allowed the freedoms that men have when it comes to promiscuity. I just like it when I can find one man, whom I am extremely attracted to, that turns me on and doesn't bore me with the mundane details of his life.

I am extremely shy around men that I like and I certainly don't chase them. To be quite honest, even though I do want to be in relationship again, I do dread the lousy sex that seems to be the end result of emotionally close relationships! I guess you have to take the good with the bad!

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