Do you think alot of adults with children view adults without children as selfish or even just clueless as to what being?

I'm 29 and everyone I associate with has kids. I however do not and I often feel like they all judge me. Asked by spydancer24 5 months ago Similar questions: alot adults children view selfish clueless Family > Parenting.

Similar questions: alot adults children view selfish clueless.

Sometimes,but it would be more selfish to have them for the wrong reasons,my wife and I chose not to have kids,and for the first 10 years of our marriage EVERYONE was on our case to have them ,but they got the hint and now leave us alone,been married now for just over 23 years and it's been great not having kids. Now don't get me wrong I don't hate kids or wish them ill will,just don't want any of our own.

I think some are jelous,when they do realize you do have a choice when it comes to having children,theres no law saying you have to.

They may envy you. You may envy them. The trick in life is to "Like what you have."And what is so great about being busy?

Take time to enjoy.

There will be some who have that mindset. I had one friend I finally had to say "why are you trying to destroy my career? " to .

Yeah I try not to let it get to me but sometimes I just feel like I'm dealing with a circle of people I can't share my problems with because "I'm not as overwhelmed as them because I don't have kids. " spydancer24 5 months ago .

Keep in mind, it's not your fault they decided to have kids.

Just a thought: a lot of Christians (particularly older ones) like to trot out "go forth and multiply" they almost never add the second part which is "and fill the earth" - as far as I'm concerned; the earth has been filled; which releases us from that. I know if we organized things right, we could squeeze in another couple billion people; but the population pressure is already causing problems.

I have three children and found out tonight I will have a 10th great grandchild in January. (the Dad will Deploy in November) It is wonderful, but it is not for everybody. I am pretty sure if they had had the pill back in the 1940's I would still be dragging around in my Marine Corps uniform...... maybe with a star or two.

This is not to say I do not love them with all my heart, only that it is not for everybody, I never want to see another Casey Anthony thing.

I caught flack from my friends and my brothers for choosing not to join them in doing the traditional 'get married, settle down, have babies' thing. They acted like I was dodging my duties.

I don't think a lot of adults with children think this. Some do.

You don't indicate whether you are married. If you are single, of course, it would be natural that you don't have children. Selfishness used to be the attitude toward childless couples, but now it's more of an attitude of "Don't give me advice about my kids because you don't have any and don't have a clue."The statement "or even just clueless as to what being busy really is?

" Are you saying that your job demands too many hours to have children and they don't understand that? Or are you saying that they aren't as busy as you? If you mean the latter, then I would say that you are the one that "hasn't a clue.

"Just don't give advice to them about kids when you don't have any. If you feel you need to pacify them or explain why you are childless, just say that once things normalize financially, you will certainly think about it (whether you will or not). Perhaps they look at your life and envy the freedom they used to have.

If you want to keep them as friends, just roll with it. You may even learn something about child rearing from being around them.

It will probably be helpful to acquire additional friends who also don't have children net.

I have kids and I don't think people without kids are selfish, I believe they are waiting for the right time in their own lives to have kids. Everyone's different. Just brush the haters off.

They are jealous. Enjoy life. When you are good and ready you have kids if you want them.

Stop worrying what others think of you. Be happy with yourself. You do not need their approval.

I cant really gove you an answer,but what I can give you is a way to a solution, that is you have to find the anglde that you relate to or peaks your interest. A good paper is one that people get drawn into because it reaches them ln some way.As for me WW11 to me, I think of the holocaust and the effect it had on the survivors, their families and those who stood by and did nothing until it was too late.