Do you think the people on the genital herpes commercials actually have herpes?

It's not transphobic not to want to date trans people, any more than it is blonde-phobic not to want to date blonde people. Trans women look trans, they do not look like cis women, and since I'm only attracted to feminine looking women, that means I'm not attracted to trans women. The only people who think that they are entitled to have sex with women are misogynistic men.

Calling someone transphobic because they don't want to have sex with you is coercive, misogynistic and anti-woman.

I cant really gove you an answer,but what I can give you is a way to a solution, that is you have to find the anglde that you relate to or peaks your interest. A good paper is one that people get drawn into because it reaches them ln some way.As for me WW11 to me, I think of the holocaust and the effect it had on the survivors, their families and those who stood by and did nothing until it was too late.