Family is suppose to care about one another so why do they hate or argue with one another all the time?

That is how reality diverges from our ideals.

Even though we are related, there are different lifestyles and opinions on how to live life. You can care about someone, but be turned off because they don't share your habits of cleanliness or money. They spend every dime they have and try to mooch off their parents or siblings.

Grudges are carried from childhood and rear their ugly head in adulthood. Sometimes there is a great deal of jealousy between siblings, especially if the parents seem to favor one over the other. You can have strife in the family if one member marries someone who doesn't fit in (or is disrespectful).

Having a blood tie only ensures that you are thrown together at holidays and events, it doesn't guarantee that you will have smooth relations. Sometimes you are more harmonious with friends.

The saying is "familiarity breeds contempt. " Humans as many other animals on Earth are drawn to things that intrigue us. But eventually even those once intriguing things can become boring, uninteresting, even frustrating and irritating.

When I was a kid, my cousin lived in the same city as a big amusement park and I was always thrilled beyond belief to visit my cousin because it meant going to the amusement park, too. But my cousin of course was bored with the park, and his parents fussed about the noise and the traffic and the crowds. I simply couldn't imagine how they could fuss about that stuff when all that fun was just waiting there to be had.

Another relevant saying is "to explain is to explain away," meaning that, often, in resolving something interesting to a satisfactory explanation, we consequently lose the interest in it. Ultimately you have to work to rise above this frailty of humanness, and considerately remember the value to you of your loved ones. It's likely that their annoying shortcomings are far less worthy of consideration when compared to the personal value to you as a loved one.

Because humans are, indeed, supposed to care for other humans. But humans as we have the critter now are more concerned with personal power and are made more happy if they can control more people . .. Not help more people.So, uh, no, we humans have not been realizing our mandate, here.

I cant really gove you an answer,but what I can give you is a way to a solution, that is you have to find the anglde that you relate to or peaks your interest. A good paper is one that people get drawn into because it reaches them ln some way.As for me WW11 to me, I think of the holocaust and the effect it had on the survivors, their families and those who stood by and did nothing until it was too late.