Generally confident, but when I am with the man I have fallen in love with, I become a blundering idiot- WHY. What to do?

1 Perfectly normal and something you will "get over. " I suspect it is charming at the present.

2 Like Gary said, it's normal - just remember that he's with you for a reason. You'll get over it sooner or later, but if you just keep telling yourself that he is with you - and unless you're some kind of psycho stalker/kidnapper it's because he wants to be - that should help with your confidence.

I cant really gove you an answer,but what I can give you is a way to a solution, that is you have to find the anglde that you relate to or peaks your interest. A good paper is one that people get drawn into because it reaches them ln some way.As for me WW11 to me, I think of the holocaust and the effect it had on the survivors, their families and those who stood by and did nothing until it was too late.