It is rape. Once the girl says no it's no. You don't ask a rape victim why they say no because it doesn't matter why.
However, the girl has very little chance of the law taking it seriously since the original intention was to have intercourse. The girl won't get any sympathy from anyone under those circumstances.
There are obviously many reasons, based on your own personal history and comfort zone, that you might not want to have sex. Whatever your reason, it's valid. There is no reason to have sex if you do not want to.
I cant really gove you an answer,but what I can give you is a way to a solution, that is you have to find the anglde that you relate to or peaks your interest. A good paper is one that people get drawn into because it reaches them ln some way.As for me WW11 to me, I think of the holocaust and the effect it had on the survivors, their families and those who stood by and did nothing until it was too late.