Honestly, can you stay faithful in a relationship, or marriage?

No. "When Rio and Ray married in 2008, the Bay Area women omitted two words from their wedding vows: fidelity and monogamy." http://www.nytimes.com/2010/01/29/us/29s... "Three-quarters of Canadian gay men in relationships lasting longer than one year are not monogamous, according to a limited study presented during the American Sociological Association conference held in Atlanta this week."

http://www.aegis.org/news/wb/2003/WB0308... "Gays have long advocated an 'easy in, easy out' attitude toward relationships. It's a model that keeps many in our community from enduring the grinding unhappiness of broken relationships." http://www.xtra.ca/public/National/If_we... "Non-heterosexuals were significantly (P<.01) more likely to explicitly talk about monogamy (83% v 43%); to report no monogamy agreements (13% v 8%); and to explicitly discuss openness to group sex/threesomes (31% v 9%).

Lesbians most often reported open relationship agreements (7% v 3%). Concurrent sexual behavior: Any type of concurrent sex was reported by 16% of couples (concurrent oral sex: 24% of couples; concurrent anal/vaginal sex: 13%). In most instances (90%), there was partner awareness of the concurrent sexual behavior.

Although there were no gender nor couple type differences in the frequency of concurrent sex, non-heterosexuals were more likely to have been involved in group sex/threesomes or to be giving consideration to this activity as a couple (12% v 1%)." http://gateway.nlm.nih.gov/MeetingAbstracts/ma?f=102283995.html.

IMHO you cannot trust anything Nicolosi puts out. 156 couples is a very small sample. Most researchers would not accept that data as reliable.

That's like going to Sweden and finding 300 people who had blue eyes and speculating that everyone has blue eyes and those who don't are some deviant of the norm. You quote homosexuality at 100% based on 156 couples in the mid-80s? 30 year old data with unreliable data source.

I cant really gove you an answer,but what I can give you is a way to a solution, that is you have to find the anglde that you relate to or peaks your interest. A good paper is one that people get drawn into because it reaches them ln some way.As for me WW11 to me, I think of the holocaust and the effect it had on the survivors, their families and those who stood by and did nothing until it was too late.