Horoscopes: Can someone please tell me whether or not this person is an idealist, optimist, realist, or pessimist based on these aspects?

In REAL astrology, attraction, compatibility and discord are indicated by the various "synastry aspects" (distances) between ANY of your 10 "planets" and any of the other person's planets. You have given us only the sign that your Sun is in (Pisces). No way to tell how you interact with someone else from just the Sun sign.

As far as psychology goes, the more you are attracted to someone, the more it is because they match your inner fears/issues/problems. Our unconscious seeks to repeat and affirm its habits/patterns, and so we are attracted to people who will trigger our hidden fears and pain. Everyone is constantly sending out subtle signals about who they are inside, and everyone is also constantly sensing (unconsciously) who the other person is.

When we are half-conscious about what we are reading about them, we call It our "gut feelings" or our "intuition" about them. Of course, it depends on how self-aware and open we are to ourselves, as to how well we are aware of what we are "reading" from the other person. But it works like this: - if we were neglected as a child, we will select someone who will end up neglecting us.

- if abused, we select an abuser - if our parents fought a lot, we select someone with anger problems etc .... And THIS is what is creating your sense of "connection". A real, genuine connection takes 2-3 years of LIVING together before it starts to grow. So the harder and faster you fall for someone, the MORE it is your unconscious doing the picking.

Real love that works ends up being a mutual attraction that starts off unemotional and slowly, mutually grows over 6-12 months of steady dating. The more you speed up that "schedule", the worse things will work out between the two of you once the "infatuation" phase has died out. "Falling in love" has nothing to do with actual love.

It is a response of brain chemistry that makes us high over the other person, fueled by our fantasizes about them, and caused by our own unconscious unfaced issues that control us. It is bad news. That is not how you find a love that works and lasts.

In fact, psychologists tell us that until we ARE happy with our life, and relaxed about our worth and value . Until then, we will NOT be happy with any lasting relationship either. We can only be as happy with love as we are without love.

In fact, love triggers our inner painful issues so we must have those resolved before we can make love work Love is the hardest thing you will ever do. And until you have dated 2-3 years, what you are feeling cannot be love .. it is only temporary infatuation.

I cant really gove you an answer,but what I can give you is a way to a solution, that is you have to find the anglde that you relate to or peaks your interest. A good paper is one that people get drawn into because it reaches them ln some way.As for me WW11 to me, I think of the holocaust and the effect it had on the survivors, their families and those who stood by and did nothing until it was too late.