How can someone find a happy balance between controversial debate and positivity?

I find that acknowledging where the opposition is coming from is helpful. Even in my hubs, if I am pro-something or other, I almost always am careful to present the other side of the story too, and then explain why my side makes the most sense. That way I still get to say what I think while keeping things upbeat, positive and showing both sides of the argument.

Yes as long as they stay away from person attacks.

Even though we all enter spirited debates, remember that everyone is entitled to an opinion. No one else is required to agree with it. As long as everyone involved can sit around around a table, share a soda, and still walk away friends, the conversation was a success.

How to do this.

2. Actively listen to the other people involved (i.e. Seek to understand BEFORE you seek to be understood).

3. Laugh whenever possible--this lightens the mood.

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