How can we have a baby when I don't trust my inlaws?

I don't want my kids to think they can get away with anything when my siblings are babysitting. My kids are expected to obey the rules whether I'm there or not. I would expect my siblings to follow through with the rules just as I would.

Gratefully I know my siblings and I trust them all implicitly, and I know that they wouldn't do anything to my kids that I wouldn't do myself. I think most of my siblings discipline their children in a similar way that I do, so it's not a big deal.

... While I think it is needed sometimes to give your child a little smack on the bottom I'm not sure I would be comfortable with someone else doing it, and certainly don't believe in hitting properly! I would ask them to follow my discipline rules I think!x.

I cant really gove you an answer,but what I can give you is a way to a solution, that is you have to find the anglde that you relate to or peaks your interest. A good paper is one that people get drawn into because it reaches them ln some way.As for me WW11 to me, I think of the holocaust and the effect it had on the survivors, their families and those who stood by and did nothing until it was too late.