How come freinds come and go? I had a friend for over twenty years. she got married don't hear from her anymore?

I had a friend for over twenty years. She got married don't hear from her anymore. Asked by marilybn 4 months ago Similar questions: freinds friend twenty years married don't hear anymore Lifestyle > Relationships.

Similar questions: freinds friend twenty years married don't hear anymore.

Well, that's not too unusual of a thing to happen between friends. It may not be that she is no longer your friend, but that she is busy with her new husband and the life they have together and just doesn't have the time to reach out yet. This is her time to get to know her husband and spend time with him, as she has with you for those 20 years.

Have you contacted her, and maybe invited her to lunch or something, near to where she lives and/or works? .

In your case, it's because we live in a couples world. Have you ever noticed how everything revolves around being a couple? It's no fun going out to eat by yourself, or to a movie etc.So, since it would appear you aren't part of that couples world, she's moved on with her hubby (now they're a couple - isn't that sweet?

) and they're probably hanging around with other couples. What you need to do is find a guy and become a couple, give her a call and say "hey, let's get together - I want you to meet Heinrich" and then you'll be part of that couples world and you'll see each other again and the friendship will be re-kindled.

Depends on their partners, too. If you are friends with both I see no reason for you not to call them and go visit. When you get married everything changes because you have to take in consideration the other person when you make plans.

I'm sure she is still your friend. Call her and ask her to go out with you for dinner and a movie. My daughter and her hubby make time for their friends and include everyone on the plans.

Sometimes people just move on and it hurts, I know this. I had a friend for 15 years and all of a sudden she quit talking to me (this was 2 yrs ago) I tried asking her if I did something and she said " I have been busy" then she gets engaged so I congratulate her and no response. I still haven't heard from her maybe its better.

Just try talking to her, it could be that she is just going in a different direction and you guys just won't be as close. I hope it will work out because I know it sucks! .

It depends on the personal situation. Maybe her new husband didn't like her friends for some reason and because she married him, she wants to please him and is no longer talking with her original friends. Could also be because she got so busy she stopped contacting friends.

I know the reason my ex-best friend and I stopped talking is because I lost respect for her and told her new husband about how she cheated on him while they were engaged. So this was a loss of respect issue. I say to contact her and see how she's been doing.It's hard to tell the exact reason she would've stopped talking with you.

I did the same thing to my friends..i was sad about it, so I hollered at her! Give her a call! .

Some are friends with common interests...now she has another interest. It is ok to gain/lose friends...just keep making more. She may not be able to concentrate on more than one thing at a time...but an marriage that is too much together may not survive...if she divorces you may get her back again.

Maybe she is now having friends that have to do with babies/families/husbands/couples. Best wishes. Don't take it personally...just make more friends and e mail her sometimes or go out to lunch with her sometime.

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