How do I convince my boyfriend/husband that one of his friendships is toxic to him?

You're right not to try to tell him who he can and can't be friends with. You can only tell him how it hurts/frustrates you to see the way that friend treats him, just point it out and leave it at that. He probably knows what he's like, afterall he's known him a very long time.

Also, if his friend insults your husband while you're around say something to him as it occurs, but do it in a calm manner.

If you haven't convinced him by now, you probably sound like a broken record to him.

Sometimes you will have to let him see for himself. That way you won't get caught up in the mix. Life has a way of saying more than words to get one to see the light.

This question is not towards him. It's towards you. Is his friend toxic towards you.

S friend can be a very good friend in his eyes. From high school they might have been this way and to him it's the normal process of what made them friend sin the first place. Maybe it's has always been a competition between them.

If he isn't making a move towards you then I don't see the need to get jealous of your hubby. BTW do you want to bang his friend or something? Why you have a problem with this dude?

You hubby can take care of himself. You just make sure you're not the one taking in the venom. PEACE!

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