How do I tell my current girlfriend that I'm still in love with my ex, we broke up 4years ago but I love her?

I've read your entire question (unlike most) and I find it very touching. You seem very down to earth very much in love with this woman; so I'm going to give you my thoughts, opinions, etc. This girl seems very fickle... but love isn't simple, either. It seems like she's looking for someone just perfect; but didn't hold on long enough to give you time to realize what was happening before she ended it.

Communication is a HUGE asset of good relationships. She should have sat you down and talked to you about how she felt; i. E: Telling you that she felt you weren't giving her enough attention.

Maybe tell you what, in her view, was a reasonable manor of treating her without being too smothering; or too distant. Without communication; things like this happen. They tell you what went wrong, but choose to end it because of it.

I believe that every love has a chance, and everyone has their "someone". As to when we meet them or finally have them is completely left to fate. I know there's not a lot of believers in that; but I for one do so strongly believe this to be true.

As for pursuing her, I have this to say. If you feel in your heart, that she's the one; and you truly do love her... Then do it. I think that you have a very good idea of meeting up with her sometime on her own time and will to exchange belongings and talk.

Open up to her, tell her how you feel and DON'T hold back. Communication skills are essential; and when put to use make a wonderful relationship bloom. If she seems that she isn't ready; then explain to her that you two should stay close friends; try to meet and hang out with each other and just stay who you are!

There are no masks in relationships; because when the mask falls off; the relationship might crumble. Never change yourself unless it's for the better in your OWN eyes. I want to wish you good luck on things.

If she really does love you; and truly wants to give you another chance, then what you're suggesting to do seems very logical and very highly acceptable! Good luck hun, you seem like a very sensible guy. We all deserve our special someone.

And if you'd like, you can email me and let me know how it went, or even ask me for more advice. ( [email protected] ) Good luck, again.

It's going to be pretty painful after breaking up with someone you love so much. It's inevitable that you're going to feel very down, sad and depressed. Sometimes it seems you spend every waking moment thinking about how to get your ex back.

Do a simple search, and you're bound to find a plethora of information, with a whole host of different opinions, sometimes seemingly off opposing viewpoints. To focus in on something that's going to help you, the first thing you think about is establishing some common courtesy. Try to read this article to the end in order to get the best benefit out of it.

First off, NEVER play mind games with people. This will only get people hurt and will probably end up worsening the situation. I only mention this because naturally people are ruled by their emotions rather than thinking their actions through thoroughly.

Think the situation through before doing things based on your emotions. Remember, even if you do manage to get people to do what you want, this amounts to manipulation, and however good you feel now, I guarantee it won't last very long. Go to : https://bit.ly/1CnNydo.

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