How do I tell my parents im pregnant? if I told them that im not, I lied about the issue but now I wanna talk?

Oh uh honey, put your up bringing aside here for one min. Think long term. If you do have a abortion you will think of that unborn child and will remember how old it would have been all the time!

U can raise this child and get help from the state to do so. Wellifare has help many of people including me at one time. They can pay for the birth and help you with food and even housing and even traning for a job after you finnish school or get your GED!

Another great program is WICK. The road to parent hood is a long and hard one. I am a mother of 2 children.

My daughter is 2 and my son is 10 mo old. I am tired and stressed out but would I Chang a thing? No!

I have grown as a person because of my children. I am 28 and there r still times when mommy needs a time out LOL! As far as being fat and all that junk, let me tell you I Brest feed both of my kids and when you do that the weight drops off!

My wight before kids 250 and after both kids 170! I had c sections with both and I sprung back quick. Rember how I was telling you kids help to bring out the best in you?

Well when I got prego I stared to eat healthier and I kept it up! I am now only 5 lbs over weight! If your "boyfriend" does not want to man up for his child that is his problem.

But you need to do what is right for u. If that is keeping the baby or not. Yes your life as you know it will change for ever, no matter what you choose to do.

But please remember this, this is your body and what you choose in this point in time will follow you for ever eather phy or mentely for the rest of your life. As far as the the stares and laftghter yes that might happen but what does not kills us makes us stronger. This choice is your and yours alone.

May be talking to your grandparents? I wish I coud give you a big hug right now sweetie. Life is hand no matter what, but you r a strong women.

Yes, women! I say this because once you bare a child you can no longer be a child your self. Please feel free to e mail me any time.

I wish you the very best in life. Hugs.

Adoption is a wonderful option set up or schedule a lunch or a sit down with both parents and tell them you have something serious you need to discuss with them I don't judge if you feel abortion is the best option for you and for that baby if you know you cannt handle the responsibilities and that child will suffer immensely then and only then would I choose that option but I also believe in owning up to mistakes I know I'm a total stranger but if no on else has got your back I support whatever decision you make but now we know that protected sex is a must and don't use abortions as a scape goat kinda if something like this happens in the future because remember that's a little life. Hopefully you won't have to make this decision again and again choosing a family and adoption is a very good option do consider it.

I cant really gove you an answer,but what I can give you is a way to a solution, that is you have to find the anglde that you relate to or peaks your interest. A good paper is one that people get drawn into because it reaches them ln some way.As for me WW11 to me, I think of the holocaust and the effect it had on the survivors, their families and those who stood by and did nothing until it was too late.