How do you confront a partner if they have lied and you found out by snooping?

%REPLIES% Answer Be extremely prepared. Be up front. Denial may certainly play into this when you confront your partner.

Don't let the confrontation get side lined, and keep the topic at hand. Don't confront in a public forum. Do this in private.

Keep a cool head. No drinking or drugs what so ever. Do this when the both of you are sober!

Answer Be careful here. I made the mistake of confronting my wife before I had my head on straight. Know what you are going to say and how you want to say it.

THEY WILL DENY AS MUCH AS THEY CAN! I had to go back and call one of her friends to get additional proof she lied about where she was. Have all of your eggs in the basket and be ready for the denials.

They will come. Once you let them know what you know, they can plan out what they are going to say and how they can protect themselves. They will also be concerned about trying to protect you from additional pain and from leaving them.It's tough, but you have to wait until you are truly ready to confront them.

Take an extra day, it'll be hard, but try and do it Answer U confront them like you normally would and like my boyfriend he would get mad and yell at me for snooping even though I just discovered he was a dog so don't let them get out of it. Stay strong and focused.By the way that was 2 years ago that I found stuff and I have been finding out stuff ever since. I would leave if I was u.

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