How do you get rid of a stalker?

How do you tell a guy who you knew a long time ago and know he wants to be in a relationship with you. Hes really sweet about it but he lives far away and I'm not interested. He calls constantly and texts and says hes gonna move to where I live.

How do I drop bigger hints to get him to back off? Asked by SidhePrincess 61 months ago Similar questions: rid stalker Consumer Electronics > Video Games.

Stop hinting and just tell him, it well be better for both of you. Men have very selective hearing, its our gift. As such you are going to need to be direct about what you have to say so that he does not continue to delude himself.

If you try and drop him hints he is going to choose to read into them what he wants to believe and won't get what your saying. The best thing to do is just be absolutely direct. While it may sound mean its the most humane thing, because on a level he knows when you drop hints that something is wrong, yet will believe what he wants to and instead of taking the hint will try harder to "fix" the situation which is not what you want.

Here is why a direct brutal answer is best. He will hear what you say, he will be upset and hurt, but then he will actually get over it and move on. If you drop hints he will still be distressed and eventually when he does get it he will have to go through the same pain and anguish.

I'm a guy, I have been dumped, trust me we get over it, it's not a big deal in retrospect. Be direct. Don't sugar coat things with excuses like "he lives to far" thats not the real reason or you would be cool with him moving to your town "his solution to your pretend excuse".

Instead try brutal honesty. He'll be upset for a week or a month or whatever but will move on. If it takes him 30 days to get over you then every day you drop hints instead of telling him the truth is one more day he is sentenced to desiring something he can't have.

You may think its brutal, but trust me on day 31 or whatever he will be healed which he won't be if you continue to drop hints. They say the truth will set you free.....its kind of true. Oh and problem #2 you might have to deal with is him obsessing once you tell him the truth, when you say its over, that means over.No more talking to him etc... unless you secretly like him to suffer longer then go ahead.

If he does not honor you when you say don't call and calls, then hang up on him. Further communication while he is in obsessive mourning mode is just going to fuel a delusion that he might be able to turn things around..

Don't drop hints You need to tell him straight out that you no longer wish to talk to him or see him. If you send mixed messages he will continue to call in hopes that he can win you over. You need to be very clear with him, and then if he continues you need to seek a restraining order..

That borders on scary! Does this guy know EXACTLY where you live? Is there a reason for keeping in contact with him?

If not, I'd tell him nicely (at first) that I wasn't interested in him that way, an tell him that he's making you uncomfortable. If he persists, I know it's a pain, but I'd consider changing my phone number and e-mail address. If he still persists, I'd contact the authorities.

Sources: IMHO .

It's time to call the cops Look, sweet or not, the guy needs to take a hint. If you call the cops, they can talk to him. If you have to, get a restraining order.

You have to do it. Sources: My Opinion .

LIE! Lie and tell him your already married or something, anything that he would believe .

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