How do you make a relationship work when one partner just wants to use the other and should you?

In order for a relationship to work there must be mutual respect and love. A common saying which you might have heard before states, "it takes two to tango. " No matter how hard you try to make yourself work and there is no effort on your partner's part to save it then it just won't work at all.

You have to have a heart to heart talk about this. Ask him why he is doing this. He might not be aware that he made you feel that he is using you.In this case you have to tell him that you are hurt because you felt used and abused.

If he will tell you that he never meant to do that and will make an effort to change and make up to you for what he's done then there is a possibility that you will be able to save your relationship. If in spite of your effort to reach out and he will not admit that he has done something wrong and continue to hurt you by using you then the best thing to do is to end the relationship.It won't help if you will do the same thing to him because you will become like him. Using other people who are using you is no way to go to make a relationship work and last.

Sooner or later this kind of conflict may blew up right onto your face and worse comes to worse both of you may end up hurting each other not only emotionally but physically as well.So, if you want to avoid that, you might as well step back and give up on that kind of relationship. It is good that you are aware that he is using you. You should take care of yourself before you lose your self-respect because it is not healthy for you to feel hurt and used.It would then be hard for you to love and respect other people if you yourself don't feel any respect and love from your partner.

Plenty of other fish in the sea. I'd give up the relationship and find someone who appreciates me.

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