I wrote an article on how to leave someone without too much drama , bits of it could apply .
Realise they are the ones with the problem not you . Find someone local you can talk to about it like a social worker.
It seems like I am in the same boat. I just dominate him in the bedroom and it kinda evens us out.
I cant really gove you an answer,but what I can give you is a way to a solution, that is you have to find the anglde that you relate to or peaks your interest. A good paper is one that people get drawn into because it reaches them ln some way.As for me WW11 to me, I think of the holocaust and the effect it had on the survivors, their families and those who stood by and did nothing until it was too late.