Yes, I'm sure you and your husband do believe that the military should have priority over everyone else. However, it doesn't actually work that way inside the US. Are you going overseas with your husband or is he being deployed somewhere you can't accompany him?
Makes quite a bit of difference.
There is no jumping the queue with USCIS. Each and every applicant is equal.
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