There are a couple things that may be going on here. If your hair got damaged from a process, perhaps the ends do need to be trimmed. My thoughts are that she would trim all the dead ends in one visit though and then allow you to wait a few months to come back for another trim.
That is the unlikely scenario. Let's face it, the more you go in for the ends to be trimmed the more money your stylist makes. If you are growing your hair out, you really do not need the ends trimmed every month.
Chances are your hair is short, and that is the reason you want to grow it out. Short hair has less of a chance of being damaged. You can probably go a good tow or three months in between trims.Do not go with what your stylist suggests, but rather your gut.
If your ends look fine, do not make an appointment. If you notice your ends getting damaged or splitting, then go in. This is one of those things you should decide on your own or it will take a lot longer for your hair to grow out.
.When trying to grow your hair out getting your split ends trimmed every 4 to 6 weeks can help. Along with getting your split ends trimmed you should also make sure to keep your hair well conditioned, eat a balanced diet, and keep heat styling to a minimum.
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