How would girl/lady/women react when a guy a talk about serious, philosophical questions?

I can't speak for all women obviously, but for me, it's really just the little things. The most important thing is really quite simple and it's just make an effort and be there. Spend quality time with her, take her out on a date and have fun, listen to her talk about her day, comfort her when she's upset, really take the time to get to know her.

I want someone that really cares about me as a person and wants to learn about every part of my life and personality (even the bad or insignificant parts). I think it's also essential to really listen and be present. Everyone wants to be listened to, even if they're talking about complete crap or moaning about work.

It makes all the difference to have a partner that you can just go to that you know will listen to what you have to say. Personally, I can't stand being with someone and it seems that their mind is always elsewhere. They're on their phone or playing games or just plain daydreaming, it makes you feel unwanted and unimportant and it's not a nice feeling.

When I'm with someone I want to know that they're there with me and that they want to be there with me. I also think that empathy and understanding is essential. I don't mind if my partner disagrees with me (because that's inevitable), but I at least want them to understand and accept my point of view, which requires having the ability to empathise.

I think empathy really helps in keeping major fights or arguments to a minimum and keeping harmony in a relationship, because if you can see things from your partner's point of view, it's a lot harder to be angry or mad at them. You'll quickly realise from the responses you get that women generally just want emotional understanding and security. To have someone that is there for them and that will really make them feel cherished and loved.

I think that is what every woman looks for in a relationship and as for the rest, it will vary from woman to woman. I know that for me it's really important that I'm viewed as an individual too. I'm not "all women" and nor is any other woman, because we're all individual.

For example, the general stereotype of women is that they want to be swept off their feet, taken to romantic dinners, bombarded with roses and compliments, but personally that doesn't appeal to me. Sure, the odd bit of romance here and there would be nice, but my main priority is to be with someone that I genuinely get on with and have fun with and that is my best friend. So I think that it's important to remember that every single woman or girl you meet is unique and will need or want different things in a relationship.

You just have to get to know that woman in order to learn what it is she wants and needs.

You have no idea about girls. Girls want a guy who is nice, has personality, will treat them with respect. TRANSLATED.....= a hot good looking guy, who makes them look good in front of their friends, increases their social status and make their friends jelous.

I cant really gove you an answer,but what I can give you is a way to a solution, that is you have to find the anglde that you relate to or peaks your interest. A good paper is one that people get drawn into because it reaches them ln some way.As for me WW11 to me, I think of the holocaust and the effect it had on the survivors, their families and those who stood by and did nothing until it was too late.

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