Similar questions: Hypothetical married woman window sitting strange man's bed they hug long time is unfaithful.
The correct answer is, "none of your business. " There are a host of related questions. Why are you looking through this window?
How do you know she's married? Are you following her? Obviously you're either a stalker or a detective, and a detective wouldn't post such a question, which makes you a stalker.
How do you know he's a "strange man" to her? If you don't know HIM, you don't know his relationship to the woman. You don't know that it's his house or even his bedroom.
He could be her brother. Or her gay friend. Or her gay brother.
Or her father. Her uncle. Her cousin.
Her spiritual adviser. A "hug" can mean many things. Not having seen the hug in question, I don't know if it was a passionate embrace or done in comfort.
Maybe it's her best friend's husband, and her best friend just died, and they are grieving together. If someone is cheating, it usually goes beyond a hug. Haven't you ever heard the old saying about assuming?
When you ASSUME, you make an ASS out of U and ME. I'll give you an example.My husband and his sister are very close. They often go out to dinner without me, at restaurants I don't like.
A casual friend of mine saw my husband with this "strange woman" --eating off her plate, drinking from her glass, obviously very close to her and happy to be with her, "hiding" in a restaurant 20 miles away from home--and told me he was having an affair! I recognized the name of the restaurant as one they go to, knew they had just been there recently, and corrected my friend's error. If my friend had simply walked up to my husband in the restaurant and said hello, he would have introduced his sister.
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Not enough information for the viewer to know. Generally, neither sitting on a bed nor hugging are considered cheating. For all the viewer knows, he could be her brother and live in a studio apartment, or share his place with roommates and want privacy to talk about, say, his recent divorce.
And even if the man and woman were naked at the time, or you saw them having some kind of intimacy that a reasonable person in their culture would usually consider reserved for a married person's partner, it would only be "unfaithful" if she and her husband don't have some kind of agreement that says it isn't. Hypothetically, it's really none of my business, and what am I doing peeping through strange men's windows anyway? ;) .
Not Enough Information There is not enough information given to be decisive about it. What if the man is her father or brother or uncle or nephew? Through the window I couldn't know that.
What if the man is someone she is consoling in grief? What if the man is a long time family friend or personal friend? What if the man is her priest?
What if the man is her doctor and she is getting bad news? What if she is ill and is being consoled? What if she isn't?
Based on the present information given, I am not quick to judge.
Sometimes a hug is just a hug! Not necessarily. For example, since my mother’s best friend past away, mom has spend lots of time with her husband and sons.
She went on holidays with them a few times and they were often called "Mr. and Mrs. X" in hotels and restruants and didn’t bother correcting anyone. My dad has also travelled with them. I also remember them sitting on his bed going through some of her best friends/his wife’s clothes to give away some etc.And them crying and hugging.
My dad and I were looking after a kid each. However if someone who knew her from work, or not very well saw her hugging this man in his bedroom sitting on the bed, without context, it could easily be misinterpreted. I also remember a story of a supplier meeting my mom and her male collegue in the restraunt of a ferry on the way to France.
She couldn’t figuire out why the guy was so stressed and uncomfortable when they asked him to join them as they’d always got on well. About 5 minutes later, she copped on when she saw his look of relief when he saw my Dad leading me aged 2 and the collegue’s kids aged 5 and 8 into the restruant. He had thought he had stumbled across some torrid affair when he saw the 2 of them heading of on their holidays together.
The collegue’s wife, who also works with them and is one of my mom’s closest friends, was seasick so my dad took us all out of her hair while the other 2 grabbed a bite. They still joke about it every time they see the guy..
Then you see, a shirt and a tie and a pair of pants - in a nice neat little pile... I would trust her. I would trust her. By George I swear, I would trust her.
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