I am married 22 years, I am dating a 29year old, I am 39years old. what do I do with him?

I am married 22 years, I am dating a 29year old, I am 39years old. What do I do with him Asked by cmarie 18 months ago Similar Questions: married 22 years dating 29year 39years Recent Questions About: married 22 years dating 29year 39years Lifestyle > Relationships.

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I can't do this anymore. I'm out. Bye Bye.

Well, that's up to you. You were married early, and you probably didn't have a chance at having an adult romantic relationship. Since you're the older one, you should take control of the situation.

Realize that the relationship isn't probably going to go anywhere. You can either enjoy it while you can, or sit down and tell the young lad that it was fun while it lasted, but you feel guilty, and you did take a vow, and you're not leaving your husband, and hope that he'll remember you fondly because you will remember him fondly.

THANKS! I WILL TAKE YOUR ADVICE! NOT LEAVING THE HUBBY!

Cmarie 18 months ago .

THANKS! I AM NEW TO THIS.. NOT IN LOVE IN LUST! MY HUSBAND IS 50 BEEN WITH HIM SINCE I WAS 17.

THANKS AGAIN cmarie 18 months ago .

Wow, you married very young. You have to decide whether or not you are happy. We cannot decide for you.

I have been divorced myself. Only you can know what to do, and seeing this young guy behind his back is not the right thing to do.

Yeah! I am just a little confused on my feelings.. but I do love the hubby. It is just kind of boaring in our realtionship/ he is controlling..i just wan to have some fun.

Kids are all adults now thanks cmarie 18 months ago .

Sorry, I did not mean to be rude at first. There are so amny people that drop questions like this and never return to see the replies. You are confused because you got married so young.

What you are doing is wrong though. If you are really unhappy, then you should ask for a divorce. I am not sure about the young guy though.

En mature much later than we women do. Maybe you should spend some time alone and get to know yourself and what you really want. You could date around and find thre right person for you.

This gives you the opportunity to be selective. Good Luck! MD;) .

Married people don't date other people - they see other people on the sly. What do you do with him? Well, he's using you.

And you are probably using him for your own purposes: to make you feel young again? You can hang on until you get caught by your husband, or until the 29 year old drops you. Or you can drop him because you have thought about what you are doing, you realize it's wrong because it's a violation of your marriage vows, and you can try to realize how wonderful contentment is and how really nice your life is.........and make a vow to never get caught in this type of trap again.

Ever.

Young guys they fall in love quick and they become attached to older women (because they love the older women) so in the end you'll end up hurting him. Plus the vows you made in your marriage should make you feel guilty later too. Mam, I can only talk from experiences so don't think I'm no miss goodie two shoes I been there and done this and it didn't turn out good I hurt a lot of people in this and it could have been avoided by getting the divorce I ended up with anyways.

I do not regret that divorce though it's been ten years and some months. I regret the hurt to that young man though, well he is older now.

As a married person - I think it is wrong. Seperate - divorce, what ever is good for you but let hubby know you want to see other people & he can too. Then - have some crazy sex that will ROCK your world!

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Wow, you married very young. You have to decide whether or not you are happy. We cannot decide for you.

I have been divorced myself. Only you can know what to do, and seeing this young guy behind his back is not the right thing to do. MorningDew 59 months ago.

Wow, you married very young. You have to decide whether or not you are happy. We cannot decide for you.

I have been divorced myself. Only you can know what to do, and seeing this young guy behind his back is not the right thing to do. MorningDew 63 months ago.

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