I am the mother of the expectant Dad, should we invite our personal friends who do not know the expectant Mom and Dad Our son and his wife live out of town and we are having a baby shower for them with family that live in our town, my husband and myself have a lot of friends that are so thrilled that we are finally going to be grandparents (our first), I would like to invite our friends, however they do not know my son and his wife. Should we just keep it for family. Asked by hubert10 33 months ago Similar questions: mother expectant Dad invite personal friends Mom Family.
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If she is outgoing and likes to meet new people, then go for it! If she is shy and more reserved, she will probably already be feeling nervous about being the center of attention at the baby shower as it is. 3) How big is the party location?
If it is large enough, you will need to entertaining your friends anyhow, so maybe you can have some time in the kitchen or dining area while she is in the livingroom, etc., so she could spend some more private time of the party with her immediate family as well. It's not like your friends are going there to breathe down her neck, they will be there to share your happiness! 4) Is HER mother involved in the party plans?
Asking her opinion might be the easiest way to get your answer. If she is anything like myself and most of the other first time mom's I've known, she could CARE LESS about who is there, and be SO EXCITED for all the tiny newborn outfits, packs of diapers to get her started, and adorable baby gifts, which I am sure your friends would be gladly toting! ***Also...If you are doing most of the planning, these are baby shower MUST HAVES:*** FOR SURE have a DIAPER RAFFLE!
- That's where everyone brings a pack of diapers (any size) to the shower. Give them a ticket when they turn in their pack of diapers upon arrival, and at the end of the shower a number is drawn to win a gift card to somewhere grand, etc. (My friends did this for me, and I had my daughter's diaper situation COVERED for the first year and a half!) GUEST BOOK JOURNAL or SCRAPBOOK: At my baby shower, they had a table with a journal, and everyone gets their own page to give the new mother your best piece of motherly advice. I still have my book and have actually referenced it from time to time!
At 2 other showers I have attended, they had the same idea, but it was a table set up with TONS of scrapbooking supplies and everyone made a page in an 8x8 scrapbook. Cute and sentimental. Best wishes to you!
CONGRATULATIONS on your FIRST GRANDCHILD! May God Bless you with many many more~ and may your two families form an unimaginable bond through this little baby! .
1 You should do whatever makes your DIL (daughter in law) comfortable and *happy*. Is she HIGHLY social, or quiet. Does she like all of your frineds?
How do you get along with her? While I'm certain you're thrilled with being first time grandparents, she is the important one here to focus on...She's the first time mom and needs to be kept comfortable.
You should do whatever makes your DIL (daughter in law) comfortable and *happy*. Is she HIGHLY social, or quiet. Does she like all of your frineds?
How do you get along with her? While I'm certain you're thrilled with being first time grandparents, she is the important one here to focus on...She's the first time mom and needs to be kept comfortable.
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Someone should tell the Guinness Book of World Records! .
Someone should tell the Guinness Book of World Records!
3 I should add, my MIL tried to be *too* pushy with me during my pregnancy and right after I gave birth. I pulled FAR away from her & my FIL. I had to throw my own baby shower and did invite men & women from both sides of the family and LOTS of family friends.
Your DIL might be thrilled if you involve her. And, possibly by inviting everyone, she and your son would get everything on their registry in one fell swoop. Which, might put them both at ease.
You'll have to weigh this based on what you know about your DIL and her family.
I should add, my MIL tried to be *too* pushy with me during my pregnancy and right after I gave birth. I pulled FAR away from her & my FIL. I had to throw my own baby shower and did invite men & women from both sides of the family and LOTS of family friends.
Your DIL might be thrilled if you involve her. And, possibly by inviting everyone, she and your son would get everything on their registry in one fell swoop. Which, might put them both at ease.
You'll have to weigh this based on what you know about your DIL and her family.
I am an adult and know all my parents close frends since they been friends for many years.
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