I don't want my 19 year old back in the house, her dad is kicking her out. she steals, lies and won't look for a job?

I don't want my 19 year old back in the house, her dad is kicking her out. She steals, lies and won't look for a job. Here's alittle back ground, 6 months ago I put my 19 year old out due to her disrepecting mouth, putting holes in walls and doors when mad, just down right lazy, also says I don't care.So I gave her the boot to live at her dads.

Well now he's giving her the boot, he lasted only 6 month. I also have a 16 year old that does'nt need to see this behavior. I just feel bad if I don't let her back.

But I know i'm the boss not her. In the last 6 months she's been stealing from me and other family. Asked by tpalms 8 days ago Similar questions: 19 year back house dad kicking steals lies job Family > Parenting.

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Let her live on the streets, she needs a serious wake up call, hold your bottom line, You need to take care of yourself and the 16 year old. Your 19 year old is an adult and she needs to take responsibility for her actions and accept the consequences. You CAN NOT let her back in, no matter how much it hurts, a 19 year old should have a place of their own and a full time job.

Don't give her any money, food, clothes, if she has a cell phone, cancel it. Does she have a car? Who's making the payments?

You? Repossess her car and sell it. In other words cut off ALL support.It will get a lot worse before it gets better, you may have to get a restraining order against her, she may end up in jail, a good dose of reality may help her.

Tuff love is sounding good to my ears, no I don't support her, no cell or car from me or any on else. I suppose she gets her stuff from stealing which will land her in jai sooner or later. Tpalms 8 days ago .

Thanks for all the comments, keepem coming tpalms 8 days ago .

You need to stop that way of thinking, she is not a teen, she is an adult. The age of majority in the United States is 18, she became a legal adult when she turned 18. She can go to a homeless shelter, they may take her for a few days.

But they are not going to let her stay, and will give the beds to more deserving people before they will give it to her. IMO she needs tough love, she needs to learn how hard it is to live out there, she needs to learn that she had a good life and she pissed it away.

She's 19. She's an adult. Neither you nor her father have any legal responsibility to take her in.

If you don't want her there, don't open the door for her. If she doesn't leave, call the police and have her removed for trespassing. Sounds like she needs a Real World wake up call.

You might have to get a Protection from Abuse order. Not sure how you do it, perhaps someone can help.

She's not abusive to me or sister. I think she just hits the walls or doors because she think thats hurting me. I don't want her back in the house it's very peaceful.

I just don't want her on the streets. I don't know if there's a place for troubled teens to go when they can't come home. In feb she will be 20.

Tpalms 8 days ago .

See if she can live with friends and work. Maybe she doesn't feel loved...so she does this behavior and other influences.

This sounds just like the exact thing 2 of my friends are going through. From watching them I do believe if you keep taking her in, paying her way and by actions having her think this behavior is ok than it won't stop. It kind of sounds like she is on some substance as well.

Find a co-dependence annonamous group in your area, it will really, really help. There are so many people who are in this group who are going through the same thing and will give you love support and the answers you need. Don't go through this alone, the pain and suffering of not saving your child is too great to handle by yourself.

Wel she's got until monday her dad's putting her out. Now shw claims she has an job interview. Hope like hell ,she gets the job tpalms 6 days ago .

If so write down rules on a piece of paper before she moves in and have her agree and sign the rules. This way she knows ahead of time what is expected of her and who knows perhaps a miracle can happen.

She's your flesh and blood and you might regret it (or not) when you get older. Are you the type of people who would CONSIDER family counseling? .

Maybe, I think she's lazy and wants everything handed to her. She was'nt brought up that way. Tpalms 8 days ago .

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