You don't need to tell her that you've given your boyfriend a bj.
No, it's really no ones Business. If you feel the need to tell someone, then fine. But if you're not comfortable with it, you don't have to, she's not your parents or anything.
I cant really gove you an answer,but what I can give you is a way to a solution, that is you have to find the anglde that you relate to or peaks your interest. A good paper is one that people get drawn into because it reaches them ln some way.As for me WW11 to me, I think of the holocaust and the effect it had on the survivors, their families and those who stood by and did nothing until it was too late.