I get so jealous/depressed and annoyed every time I see a couple being happy together, or everything romantic?

The answer you seek is as simple as this: In life every single person has CHOICES Right now you are making a choice to cut yourself. You are making the choice to be unhappy. You are making the choice to be negative Change your choices.

Then your attitude will change magically and dramatically after that. Guys sense this in women they date, and if she is negative they don't approach her. At all.So basically, you are getting in your OWN way.

(From a guy's perspective, a girl that is so negative, unhappy, etc. Is too much work. They'd rather be with someone happy, positive, etc. Translation: A girl who makes GOOD CHOICES... See? Goodluck.

Lolx... I think you need some relationship.. well if you cant find your perfect guy you can find him by this website where peoples met each other...its a site where girls and boys are on dating with each other. You should try this may be this will change you. Or your nature of jealousy...try it.

I have the same problem and the same things happen I think its desperation lol but its ok when the right person comes around you'll be happy.

It sounds like you are depressed. I've been there before. Try to force yourself to dress and do your hair.

You could easily find a guy to date.

You need therapy for the cutting and other issues. Please talk to your guiadance counselor at school or ask your parents to take you to therapy if you can do it. Good luck because not having a boyfriend at age 15 is not that big of a deal.

You have plenty of time in the future to hook up with a guy; so just relax and stop taking it so seriously just because every body else is doing it; it's just not your time yet the right guy will come along and maybe they are just a little intimidated by you or something afraid to ask you out because you are good looking and confident.

It's okay, you aren't the only one in the world like this. I used to be just like you not too long ago. Felt the same, didn't know what to do.

You were just like me! Please don't cut yourself or put yourself down like that. I'm sure you are a very nice person, inside and out.

Expand outside of your normal crowd, make some new friends (guys and girls), and you may be surprised. I used to think I would never be in a relationship, but I just recently got a bf. So, take your time and take some risks.

The right person is still out there, waiting for YOU. :).

Aw, I wish I could give you a hug. It's perfectly normal to be jealous of people who are happy when you're not. But don't take it out on yourself!

Don't cut yourself. And try not to compare yourself with your young friends. I mean how many of them will have serious, lifelong relationships with their bf/gf?

Sometimes it's worth the wait for a real, wonderful guy. There are 7 billion people on the planet, a bunch of which would love to date you, I'm sure. It sounds like you're really depressed, since you're not enjoying makeup and hair styling and all that (which isn't necessary, but does help with self confidence for some people).

Honestly, you sound like my little sister. Don't give up hope yet. You're so young and lucky compared to tons of kids around the world!

Maybe you should talk with an adult to help you feel better. I hope you have a Merry Christmas :).

I cant really gove you an answer,but what I can give you is a way to a solution, that is you have to find the anglde that you relate to or peaks your interest. A good paper is one that people get drawn into because it reaches them ln some way.As for me WW11 to me, I think of the holocaust and the effect it had on the survivors, their families and those who stood by and did nothing until it was too late.