I have seen private facebook msgs between my father and another women. the words I LOVE You have been used a bit?

I have seen private facebook msgs between my father and another women. The words I LOVE You have been used a bit. The other women lives in another country but there has been messages about meeting.

I know my parents cant afford to travel this distance. I don't know what to do Asked by Nickwebster 6 days ago Similar questions: private facebook msgs father women words LOVE bit Family.

Similar questions: private facebook msgs father women words LOVE bit.

Sorry - No they are what I thought and what it seems like 'Happily married' Not divorced. Im 28 and my bother is 23, we are both out of home. I stumbled across these messages after he asked me to fix something on his FB.

The other women happened to message while I was on. I feel guilty as I did do some snooping after I saw it Nickwebster 5 days ago .

Oh im so so sorry:( I'm only 15 but I guess I can still give my opinion. Your father is an adult - as are you - and you both have the liberty to make your own goals, choices, and mistakes, but he is your business because he is your father - you only have one birth father. You should do what you can to help him find his way back to having an honest relationship.

Confront him about it. Ask him why. Why is he doing this.

Figure out what he's really looking for. That's all I have. I don't know much at the moment about life but with what I have so far, this is what I would do.

I hope everything turns out ok! .

You can bring it to you Dad's attention and tell him how it makes you feel. Aside from that I think it's best to stay out of it. We forget our parents are individuals and make mistakes just like us.

I'm not saying it's right but I tended to want to imagine my parents were perfect and everything they did had to do with my feelings. I'm assuming he doesn't know or believe anyone in his family can see what he is writing or he probably wouldn't be doing this on facebook. I say, tell him what you saw, how you feel and see what he says.

It may not happen and go away. Pray that your parents stays strong. See if you can get your parents to do a fun activity with you and them that would bring fun maybe back into their relationship...renew it and help it thrive.

Some people have Midlife crisis or end of life crisis or 7 year itch...help them to see the good in each other without maybe telling them what you are doing. Maybe it is good he can't travel to see this person. There is also Christian love...but help him to stay loyal to your mom.

Maybe for Christmas give your mom a spa treatment etc...Best wishes.

Great minds think a like, I just brought a spa package for her a few days ago. Thank you for the great advise, fun time just around the corner Nickwebster 5 days ago .

It appears your father is having a little "fantasy" relationship. I would'nt go as far as calling it harmless, since infidelity has many definitions. Even though he's your father, it's still his business.

For instance, you probably would'nt want him to interfere with any personal relationship issues of yours. They're your parents, it pretty much stops there. Your mother should be able to handle this on her own.

She may also already know about this, and not broadcasting it. Just beware of repercussions, if you decide to intercede. Good intentions can backfire.

I would just observe for now and think a bit. Good luck.

Thank you Fenjo, great advise. Nickwebster 5 days ago .

Unfortunately, this is a hard thing to deal with.. I disagree that you should do nothing as this will affect YOUR relationship with your father as well.. I would speak to my father alone, first. Then I would explain that he needs to respect your mother and end this "fantasy" relationship. If he chooses not to do so, let him know that if he doesn't tell your mother, you will show her the messages yourself.

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