I just found out that my boyfriend has been committing incest against his sister?

Break up with him. There is no reason to maintain a relationship with a person you no longer can trust, and now fear may harm you As a survivor of incest committed by a brother, I can tell you that he will never admit it without psychiatric help and maybe never then. And they do not do well at relationships.

They often have issues with control, anger and violence He knows you know, so he won't be surprised when you break up with him. Think about your own safety and your future.

If you are tired of the lies then get away from him. If he comes after you have the phone ready to call 911, they will arrest him and then you can get a restraining order against him. This is something only you can do, no one else can take care of this relationship.

Then get the hell away from them. If that sister is under age you need to go to Child protected services and report the rumors to them. Let them decide if investigation is called for.

If rumors are false they will survive the investigation. However if finding are true, you just might be the first adult in that child's life to protect her.

It sounds fishy. I don't like the threats he has thrown at you, and if the rumours are true.. I would have left him. You are in your full right to do so if you don't feel safe in the relationship anymore.

I would break up with him, keep your thoughts to yourself and never talk to him again. If he starts to harass you then consider filing a restraining order against him.

I would remove myself from this relationship. He has issues that need professional help.

You need to prove or disprove this rumor. Go ask his sister. Then regardless of her answer, get away from him .

These threats will go from one subject to another until he carries them out.

............ There is almost nothing more disgusting than this sort of thing .......... If it really did happen.

Time to move on and don't look back. Thats a disgrace.

Run and don't look back because he could hurt you just like he said.

Well the smart thing to do is break up with him.. Get out of it..

If you don't want any part of the family drama, the best thing you can do is remove yourself from the situation. If your boyfriend is avoiding the issue of incest and is threatening you when you bring it up, you have to leave him! If he is threatening you with harm, he will harm you.

He is only interested in his own sexual gratification no matter where it comes from and will not change no matter what you do. He has to admit he has a problem first. Is he having willing incest with his sister?

Or is he forcing himself on her? In any case you must find another boyfriend. One that will not be so obsessed with sex that he will go against the laws of man and nature.

Good luck, and if he threatens you, you can go to the police and have a restraining order placed against him. It is a terrible thing that you are going through and my heart goes out to you.

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