Well it sounds like you tore it, if it hasn't shrunk back, I don't think it ever will. And for the guy who said that your going to regret stretching your ears, if you stretch your ears slowly and safely then it will shrink back if you want it too. Just clean it and don't go so fast.
You need to slow down. Not wasting my breath just answering your question. If you keep gauging at this rate you are most likely going to get keloids, sometimes they have to be surgically removed.No joke.
Gauge one size at a time, and if you don't know about keloids, you probably shouldn't be gauging to begin with. Body mod is awesome, but you don't want to cause lasting damage, when you could just be doing it the smart way to start with.
Yo' Doc! You should save the preaching for your church! She can do whatever the **** she wants, it's her life and no one else's.
You only live once, gauge your damn ears if you want too. I'm gauging mine after Christmas (: I have no clue about your question I just wanted to shut that guy up. Anyway, goodluck!
You should save this so when you're older and can't remember how you could have been so stupid to ruin your body... you can fondly look at this and reminisce. YOU WILL REGRET THIS.
I cant really gove you an answer,but what I can give you is a way to a solution, that is you have to find the anglde that you relate to or peaks your interest. A good paper is one that people get drawn into because it reaches them ln some way.As for me WW11 to me, I think of the holocaust and the effect it had on the survivors, their families and those who stood by and did nothing until it was too late.