I slept with a married man he told me about it after we slept together now I have strong feelings for him what do I do?

We have a strong connection he knows exactly what I like. Is it that he has strong feelings for me or is he just playing with me? Asked by cartella 10 months ago Similar Questions: slept married man told strong feelings Recent Questions About: slept married man told strong feelings Health > Conditions & Diseases.

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You are in for a world of trouble. He is not going to leave his wife for you. You will be a convenience for him, something on the side.

You will eventually be dumped when his wife finds out. You will have pride in knowing that you have assisted in breaking up his marriage. Do you really want to be in that position?

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Well you know he's a scumbag already since he slept with you without telling you beforehand that he was married. So he's self-centered. Do yourself a huge favor and run.

He's somebody else's misfortune.

I would think long and hard about committing myself to a man who lied to me (and not telling you WAS a lie) about something as important as his marital status. I'm sorry you got hurt by his lie, but is this really the kind of man you want? One who lies to you, and cheats on his wife?

Kat .

You let go of those feelings. A) He's a cheating jerk. B) He's married.

Take this as a lesson learned, and move on. He is never going to leave his wife for you. And, even if he did, why would you want to be with him?

You already know he is a cheating dog....

This is odd. How on earth did you come to be in such a situation that you were sleeping with an apparent stranger? Did you mean to say that you f#cked a married man?

If so, that is a different thing all together.

Don't sleep with anyone unless you are married to them. Strong feelings can develop many times...but the guy may just have wanted sex...no relationship. You didn't know him well before you slept with him.... He may not leave his wife...may just want more sex.

He maybe like Tiger Woods etc. May always cheat...even on you.

RUN FAST in the opposite direction. If you have truly developed feellings for him, get over them. Keep yourself busy with other things.

Do not take calls for him or let him in your house; make a clean break. The story is always the same. I am embarrassed to say that I am one of those stories.

They are NEVER going to leave their wife. Even though his marriage is supposedly bad, he won't do anything to risk his wife finding out about you. Holidays, etc., he will spend with his legal family.

Chances are you will do a lot of cooking since you can't been seen together. Maybe he'll bring some take-out food sometime. You won't be able to attend any events together, either.

No matter what he says, his priority is his wife - you can know about her, but she can't know about you. Since his time away from his home is "stolen", don't expect much more than sex on the occasions you get together. If you're lucky, maybe you can pop a DVD in to watch.

Your plans with him can be cancelled at the last minute, and will happen anytime something with his family comes up. You will always be his last priority. Seeing a married man is demoralizing and was for me very shameful.

You can't even share your "love" relationship with your friends and family. I know it is easy to think this time is different than the other millions of times people have dated married people, but it ISN'T. And as others have pointed out, why would you want a lying, cheating scoundrel anyway?

I know it's really hard, but please take the advice of all the people here...notice that NO ONE anticipates a good outcome. Better to be alone than with scum. Hanging out with him will also prevent you from getting out and maybe meeting someone decent.

P.S. Notice that YOU are making a commitment, but he is NOT.

He is a married man. That door is closed. Just because a person has feelings, that doesn't mean they should be acted upon.

He lied to you initially. He messed around on his wife. He's a player.

You may be alright taking him away from his wife, but will you be okay when he does the same thing to you? The moment he wanted to cheat on you, he would.

These days women have to get a background check on anyone they are thinking about getting involved with. You should do that before the first date. As for now, forget about him.

You have to leave him. He's a jerk. Not only is he cheating on his wife with you, he probably has a few more girls on the side also.

If the sex is good, stay with it…until something better comes along. Don’t get in it too deep.

Thanks for the advice. I have been crying for this loser and yes his definitely self centered the connection we have is strong but his probably like that with any other girl. He had told me he has strong feelings for me that I should be his, but he also talks allot.

His exactly my type it was love at first sight we get along so well but after this I won't be able to trust any man. It's the worst position to be in. Because you wanna be his number one, and you haven't been sleeping with no one but him.. while his doing his own thing.

But i'm running away not dealing with that anymore even though i'm in love with his looks the way he talks and carries himself I gotta let go... cartella 10 months ago .

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