First of all the court do not care about you and your husbands bickering or what you want,,,They are only interested in the wellbeing and welfare of the child...It does also depend on if the partner is going for full custody..the court will also take into consideration the following...where the child goes to school...Who can give the child more supervision and why this relationship has broken down. They may ask you to to do mediation to see if an agreement can be reached...The Courts as I said are there for the Interest of the said child not you or your ex and We all have to be happy with that.
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