If I have a lazy wife..how do I get her motivated to get up and clean the house?

Why don't you work out some kind of deal where both of you clean the house together. Maybe she will be a little more interested in it if she sees that you are too. I think the pounding on the chest and declaring yourself "boss of the world" is the wrong approach.

I agree with the others it's 50/50 shared responsibility help her.

If you are, I want to talk to your wife. I have some advice for HER.

The first thing I would do if I were you was either get sterilized or take up some excellent birth control (like 2 different types of birth control at once). The second thing I would do? Come to the acceptance that you are not limited in what you can accomplish.

You need to get a job. Any job. See the link below.

The third thing you need to do is go to some couples therapy. Don't give up on your marriage until you have done everything you can to fix it. It does not sound to me like you have been there / done that yet.

Peace.

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