Almost 2 years ago I was granted full custody and there is no visitation order as he never came to court and I had a protective order against him. I want to have him sign over his rights but I know he won't willingly, so is it wrong of me to stipulate that payment of all owing support be paid before I will consider visitation? Asked by mrwilson 30 months ago Similar questions: full custody visitation request pay back child support Politics & Law > Law.
Similar questions: full custody visitation request pay back child support.
The decision is not up to you; it is the realm of the court. Generally, child support and visitation are two entirely different decisions for the court, and usually they are not connected in any manner. If you ex petitions the court, they will probably allow him supervised visitation, unless there is an overwhelming reason not to, and eventually unsupervised visitation.
What you *want* does not ever enter the picture. Just because someone has a protective order against another person does not mean that it was justified (you could have been lying unless there was a court case to validate it), and may not be the basis for visitation. Certainly the payment of child support is not a factor in visitation, but is an are that the court has jurisdiction over.
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That isn't wrong, it's expected. No one would look at amending a court order if the original court order had not been obeyed. And if he bailed on showing up in court, I wouldn't expect anything from him in visitation.
Personally, I'd recommend against amending the no-visitation, as he appears to have a negative interest in his children. Rather, I would go to court to have a judge set up locating the person and garnishing his wages. You don't need to amend anything to force payment.
If the court ordered it, they need merely be told he's not paying and they'll make him, whether he wants to or not. (BTW, there are those who will help and counsel how to avoid such court-ordered payments, but it involves being on the run the rest of one's life. In that way, he'll be showing you whether children or money are more important by the court orders, again, without amending anything.) .
1 I think that would be a decision for the court to make.
I think that would be a decision for the court to make.
2 And the two need not be connected. Regardless of the courts decision on visitation, he owes the child support. It would be a mistake for your to use payment of same as an argument about visitation.
Your lawyer would tell you this. If you have one and s/he didn't, you need a new lawyer. If you don't have one consider it.
Good luck. One who has been there.
And the two need not be connected. Regardless of the courts decision on visitation, he owes the child support. It would be a mistake for your to use payment of same as an argument about visitation.
Your lawyer would tell you this. If you have one and s/he didn't, you need a new lawyer. If you don't have one consider it.
Good luck. One who has been there.
4 Two separate issues. If the court thinks the child/children will benefit from seeing their dad they will grant him visitation. I think it is wrong for you to use the back support as black mail.
If he owes you the money than get a court order and make him pay it to you. Don't use the fact that he owes you money as a weapon to keep him from forming a relationship with his kid(s). That is wrong and everyone loses.
Two separate issues. If the court thinks the child/children will benefit from seeing their dad they will grant him visitation. I think it is wrong for you to use the back support as black mail.
If he owes you the money than get a court order and make him pay it to you. Don't use the fact that he owes you money as a weapon to keep him from forming a relationship with his kid(s). That is wrong and everyone loses.
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