If two people of the same sex marry does one partner have to be feminine for males and masculine for females?

Your wife is bored and no longer wants to be in the marriage unless its for her own convenience she has a cook, maid and housekeeper she has no incentive to be involved as everything is provided for her nor does it seem she wants to be you can jump through all the hoops you want to but you cant make her love or want you.

My husband is both. More of an alpha male than a gentleman but he's not feminine whatsoever. Feminine guys are much a turn off for me as big butch and burly women would be to him.

I've been a tomboy all my life but I'm still a woman and still act like one. We prefer balance. But for the sake of argument and to answer your question of either or, I would go with the alpha male because I don't like feminine guys at all.

While I don't need a man to protect me, it's comforting to know that if I wanted him to, he's capable. Not only would I prefer an alpha male, I would want him to be a bit "hood" too. I would want to know that if we were ever on a dark street one night and were approached by muggers, he wouldn't lose his head by bitching out and getting us both killed or automatically cross the street to avoid passing a group of people loitering on the street.

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