If you fell in love with someone 20 years elder than you, would you marry them?

Yes , he is 19 years older , we have been married about 16 months & have a lot in common, traveling Aussie together . I wouldnt reccomend an 18 yr old doing it but as you get older the gap decreases AS LONG AS YOU HAVE THINGS IN COMMON . I am 46 he is 64 soon.

Both been married before.

Yes, I would. My husband is actually twelve years older than me but I still would have married him had he been twenty years older than me. Age is a number that a lot of people put too much emphasis on.

I know that he more than likely will die before me. But I choose to treasure my marriage to him and our time together as a couple rather than focus on when I will be a widow. He loves me like I have never been loved before by any other man.

I love him more than anyone I have ever loved. I know that we were made to be the other's spouse. For us, the age difference is not a problem.

I say the heart wants what the heart wants. A true connection between two people is rare enough without giving it restrictions like age.

Of course I will! Love is blind and knows no boundaries.

Love is eternal. You can be with your loved ones forever and that is a lot longer than a measly 20 years. However, I believe that a truly important part of marriage is to have a family - as long as the age difference still allows for that, I say it is 100% okay!

By the way, my hubby is 11 years older than me and we welcomed our first little baby into the world 3 months ago. =).

I think it depends on the individual. If it feels right, it's an individual preference. However, at some point the energy levels will shift... One may still be in party mode and the other in early to bed mode.

This may create friction in the relationship which one should be aware and not surprised as the years pass.

I did. Not 20 years but 25 years older. I would do it again if the same man was asking.

I knew him for 7 years before we married. Our marriage lasted 39 years. Love isn't blind it's seeing the flaws and scars with understanding.

You've just encouraged me to stop and give this answer some very serious thought, before responding......It's multi-faceted for me at this point (age) in my life. Now, in my early sixties, I know I would certainly not consider marrying a man in his eighties. Reflecting back to my 20's, I may have been foolish enough to believe that "love conquers all, and marry someone in his 40's.

I'm grateful that was never an option. This brings me to believe that the one age bracket where I would have no second thoughts about a union w/ a 20 year gap.....is my 30's. Marrying a man in his 50's at that point in my life may have been an easy decision for me.

Make sense? It DOES to me!

Yes. I don't think age matters when it comes to consenting adults who actually have feelings for each other.

I think that love has no age limit, while I think there would be some obstacles to overcome, love, is after all, love and age should not be a restriction.

My sweetheart is 10 years younger and I would marry him if he'd ask me. I'm that kind of girl who still believes in marriage:-)If he would be 20 years older I don't even think I'll last a month since he would be 58 then! Not my thing at all.

Tough chance if I would fall in love with someone that much older, depending ofcourse how rich he would be.(yeah that's a joke ofcourse).

Sure I will... age is not important.. love and respect are!

Yes, I would, and yes I did.....In fact, my husband is 28 years older than I am. We have been together for 19 years and married for 18 of those years. We also have a 15-year old son together.In fact, when it comes to children, we have yours, mine, and ours.

All of them are adults except for our son. Both of us had been married before. Neither of us was married when we started dating.

Age is only a number. Will you have ups and downs? Well yes, of course, but who doesn't today.

Marriage is about compromise if you truly love each other. I know how people think...and the next thought is there must be money......sorry folks.....no money. I am the bread winner in the family and have been since my husband had to retire when our son was only two.

He was Mr. Mom for years. I was very spoiled for years. He did all of the cooking, cleaning, laundry, and yard work.

However, the last three years he has been very ill. I work full-time, take care of my husband, and ensure my son is a happy, and well-adjusted teen. I'm still here.....didn't run.....didn't find anybody else.

Marriage is 'til death do us part'.

Love shouldn't be bound by age, as long as they are of legal age (18 in most countries).

I would defnitely go ahead and marry him. I would have obviously fallen in love with him after knowing his age, and once you are in love, nothing else matters.

I think Age shouldn't Matter when LOVE IS CONCERN. Because LOVE knows no Boundaries. It's just happen whenever it Destined to happen.

Of course yes. Age is just a number, if you're both happy so what? :-).

It depends on where both of you are on a maturity level, as well as what you both want during and up to twenty years in the future. I agree that as you get older, the age gap closes in a bit. However both people will have to be willing to anticipate to some degree what factors in life will/would come into play in the future that may not be an issue at present.

Getting along and having common interests is good for a relationship, but long term goals and visions have to be in accordance.

No! Love is common but society has norms. Thats why an Oedipus or electa complex is termed as a complex.

Also, marrying someone 20 years elder will prove difficult biologically, psychologically and physically too. There are high chances of losing the partner to death and living a life alone for a long time. ( am assuming monogamy here.)So go ahead - have love and affection for people of all ages - but if its someone 20 years elder do not change it into a sensual or sexual love!

I had an aunt who was 26 years apart from her husband and they were very happy.

Yes, I would marry this person. Age does not matter, It is love that you found and will make you happy both whole your life till the end.

Yes of course I will. I don't think age matters.

I did and so did my Brother. It worked out for awhile, but in the long run I think it is destined to fail. As you age, the gap seems to get wider.

When you are young it is not so noticeable. Each to their own.

Today, no. But if I was at a good point in my life, career and happy, then yes. Love is love.

I'd listen to my heart.

Well; I'm planing to marry someone far younger than myself; so if it is OK for me I say its good for anyone.

Of course as long as you love them and the treat you well why not.

Sure. If that's what we both want. The only problem is neither of my parents would be too happy about my dating someone older than they are.

If he were in love with me, as well, the age difference would not keep me from saying yes to marriage. There are some problems with this much of an age difference between two people, but if the other big questions of a relationship are in place, the age difference is unlikely to be a major factor in keeping things together.

Sure, if I was truly in love with someone their age would not matter to me.

Love knows no age limits, although I would have trouble imagining it, they would be almost 50 in my case (no offense to any 50+ ladies reading this).

Of course. When you truly fall in love, it is all about making the most of the time you have together. Every moment counts.

If you are in love, then the difference in age shouldn't be a big factor. Lots of people marry others close in age and are miserable for a very long time together. When you find a person who can truly make you happy, you don't worry too much about things like age.

Probably not.... Seems like a significant gap in age. I mean, its not unheard of. Nowadays happiness is hard to find so if you truly thought that you found it in that special someone else, then go for it.

People will look at you strangely and you just have to be open and willing to deal face the constant attention that may come with it wherever you go. You simply have to ask yourself, do others dictate what makes you happy or do YOU dictate what makes you happy. Outside of someone under the age of 19 whether boy or girl, I never understood why there was so much of a stigma attached to age differences.

I thought being an adult and making decisions for yourself would not be looked at differently by society but thats not true at all. Every day someone else decides what we "should" be doing or how we "should" do it or when we can do it or why we must do it. I personally probably wouldnt be attracted to someone older than myself by 20 years, but I don't think there would be anything wrong with it if I was.

I once married a man 26 years older than I was. The problem was, I was so young, naive and innocent. He took full advantage and pushed me into the marriage before I was really ready.

I was too young to know what I wanted out of life. Needless to say, the marriage is over. I see nothing wrong with marrying a much older man, if you are mature enough to know what you want.

It's very hard. I am 26, so he would be 46. I look way younger than 26, so that's a huge difference.

When I see a 46 years old man, he reminds me of my uncle nothing else. When I am sixty, I am getting ready to retire and spend the rest of my life with my husband. But at that point, he is eighty.

He will die in a few years or is already died. 20 years older is just too big of a difference. 10 years older is not really a problem because it is still in the same generation.

Most men would love to find someone 20 years younger.

I sure would age to me does not matter, as long as there is love age is meaningless.

If I loved someone older than myself or younger than myself the age difference would not matter ....

If I should have any reason to fall in love with any woman who is older than me, I will also have the same reason to marry her if she believe in me.

I suppose so, my husband is 15years my senior and we have been happily married going on ten years now :).

Yes, I would. It happened to me. Many, many years ago, (almost in another life) I fell in love with a man 20+ years older than me when I lived overseas.

I know this is going to sound so cliche, but it really did happen to me. He ended up being married, but didn't tell me until a year into the relationship. It was difficult and devastating.

He also would not divorce his wife for religious reasons. I just couldn't go on being Katherine Hepburn to his Spencer Tracy so we ended the relationship. But, I'll tell you.

I really, really, loved that man and always have, even though I married someone else. My marriage ended, and I have often wondered if it was really doomed from the beginning because of this man.

I think you have settle down fist and then you should think about marriage. Give first preference to your carrier, but if you are from rich family then you can do it but still make your own way is great man step..

Love is love, if you love them enough then you just might. Marriage nowadays is really a formality anyway I find, you can love someone and live with them and such without having actually gotten married. For me personally marriage wouldn't be that much a thing regardless of age, but if it were to come to that I would.

I think yes, if I fell in love with someone 20 years older, I would marry them.

Absolutely. Love is a beautiful thing and should not be thrown aside lightly. Others may say the age difference is insurmountable, but if they were to meet that kindred spirit... Would they really walk away?

If I fell in love with someone 20 years older than myself (and they fell in love with me) and we were certain we wanted to spend the rest of our lives together and would be more than just happy with each other, then yes. Absolutely. The appearance of the relationship to outsiders matters little.In fact, the more of the relationship you share with those who aren't a part of it, the more dishonest the relationship can become.

I don't mean that there would be direct lying going on, but those in the relationship might feel the pressure to change, be funny, do interesting things, be together non-stop, never fight, never disagree...it's exhausting. We have to allow ourselves to be in relationships and accountable to our partner and ourselves, but not to those standing nearby peering inward.

If you are 70 and he is 90 it makes sense...

I don't think so. There is just too big of an age difference that your life just wouldn't go together that well. 10 years would be my max age difference.

Of course. For me, love has no boundaries, no limits.. We should grab the opportunity of having someone to love and being love. I would definitely marry that person, regardless if he is 20 or 25 years old older than me.

I know of successful marriages with either the male or the female being way older than his/her partner. I think it all depends on how they go about their relationship that makes it successful.

Ofcourse yes! If its a sincere relationship thn why not. Once you are in love, nothing else matters.

It can work, but a lot of thought needs to be put into it, perhaps through a long successful relationship before it. At the risk of being unromantic, in my opinion, marriage is more than two people being in love with each other. Its a lifetime commitment together, and perhaps most punishing on the younger partner in the relationship.

While one is in their 20s and the other is 40s, there may not be much difference, but are they still on the same page when one of them is ready to retire while the other is in the height of their career. Does an older husband want to have children in his 50s when his wife is in her 30s? Its not just being on the same page when you get married, but the same page when on the lifetime journey.It can be a struggle enough for those in the same phase of their lives, and a large age gap can make that even worse.

It may also sound unromantic, I don't believe it is realistic to say if you are in love nothing else matters. Most of us don't live in the Blue Lagoon, and are subject to the scrutiny and judgements of our friends, family, enemies, collegues, and even the wider public. Most of us have enough insecurities to not be bulletproof when judged by others.

We all want other people we care about to feel the same way as we do, and it can be hard when they don't. If the older partner is affluent is an attractive younger partner percieved as a gold digger? Is the older partner just a cougar or dirty old man?

The judgements of others aren't just opinions either when they can tangibly impact on our lives, professionally or personally, sabotaging job opportunities or friendships. All strains which can create rifts in a marriage.It can work, but a lot of serious questions have to be asked. And if the best response is that 'If it doesn't work out then we can always get divorced', then you probably shouldnt get married in the first place.

Obviously, yes :) I was already in my mid 30's when I got married.

I don't think so, I mean it is kind of really romantic, sort of a Jane Eyre type of feel, but sill, imagine how your children would fee, or how they would pass on so much earlier than you. Sorry to be so cynical.

Love never see the age, caste, money anything, It just happens. It is such a beautiful feeling that no one can feel until or unless he/she fell into it. According to me, if your love is sincere and true then never mind how older he/she is.

Just accept him/her.

As for men is concerned, I will never marry such an old womenas for women it is not a big issue to marry older men.

If it truly was love than age shouldn't matter. I would imagine that the reason it doesn't happen all that often is that the things that trigger two people to fall in love more often than not don't generally occur between people with a huge age gap....However, that doesn't mean that love can't exist there, and if it does then it would be wrong to ignore it just because of age...That's just my opinion....

Yes. Age is just an illusion, and if you love someone then you should. It may also be hard because they may die way before you, but I would still take that chance.

Love is a blessing and true love is rare in life. Don’t throw it away just because of something as trivial as age.

If they aren't married. If they love you back. Then why not?

Personally, I find some older men hot.

Heck yes... age is a number, just like license plates...useless.

It depends that how much I love that person. If my love is true then I will definitely marry that person.

I'm pretty sure I wouldn't do it. I would rather find someone closer to my own age who gives me the best chance for a long relationship with them. I don't believe I would ever fall in love with someone 20 years older than me anyway, so it doesn't really matter.

Absolutely not ... that person would be old enough to be my parent. I don't think it would be love. I think it would be more of an infactuation.

I would get my head examined.

I can't really picture it, but maybe! It would be sad that he would die 20 years earlier than me, though! I'm not sure if I could take that.

I have a friend who married someone 40 years her senior. They lived happily married for over 20 years until he passed away.

I believe love does have a limit. The older you get, the closer your life experience and maturity is. If an 18 year old wants to hook up with someone 20 years older it probably won't work.

If a 50 year old hooks up with a 70 year old, it may work.

I usually say that age is nothing but a number but I am a 21 year Old and that would a 41 Year Old with me. I'm sorry but I have a certain standard or like a line that I won't cross over when it comes to some things.

I will never marry someone who is 20 years older than me, but if I fell in love with him, then that must be my destiny, God-given gift, so im sure im gonna marry him coz I love him! :).

I fell in love with a man 14 years older than me, and he is the greatest love of my life. :).

Love should knows no bounds. So yes if I fell in love with someone I would marry them. :D.

My boyfriend is 14 years older than me and I don't mind if I do marry him because we have the same wavelength in absolutely anything. Age is just a number, when you find someone you have in deep connection with,it doesn't matter. People die any age, young or old, its how we live our lives like we wanted it, enjoy love!

Love conquers all as what they've said. If you really love the person, marry him/her. You don't need to listen what other people have to say, you just need to feel what your heart says.

YES! Of couse I would! I believe age is a number... as long as both parties are consulting adults of course.

Yes my wife did and married me 31 years ago . It has worked out fine . No regrets .

Not likely... I wouldn't even do it for money. I want the love in the relationship.

Depends on their physical fitness and health, you don't wanna marry a person with one foot in the grave..

Yeah, I think it depends on a person how he would view love in any way. But to me, at first if I met somebody who is older than me 20 years, maybe I'd rather not to try falling inlove. But if I do fall, I will marry him.

I almost did! It did not work out, which may have been an good thing. I was 20 and he was 37.

If I'm ever in that position again with someone else, I think I would if I was in love and knew he loved me. Like any other thing in life, it would depend on the relationship. He would also have to truly love my sons as his own.

Yes. It depends on what age I am. If I were 18 and think I am in love with someone who is 20 yrs older, the success and retention rate would not be as high if I were 40yrs old, in love with a 60 yr old person.

I would have been more settled in my ways, and falling in love with the right person at that age would be more purposeful and fulfilling..

No. Age does matter. How can you grow old with someone who is 20 years or older then you?

You have different needs at different ages and someone who is 20 is needing different things then someone who is 40.

I would have to say that there are two sides to this answer. I think that love knows no age, but at the same time you have to consider that there is a strong chance that you may out live this person by 20 years. When you are in your prime, they will be an old person.

How will that effect you? That question you need to answer before you make a decision. My husbands mother married a man 21 years younger than her.

She is 81 and he is 60... he left her for a younger woman a few years ago and left her elderly and alone. So I have mixed feelings on this.

If she is what my heart truly wants, then yes..

I am having a 20 years love affair this time and so far our relationships are doing well. It's so nice to find a mature person I have now. I can say I am happy.

If he ask me to marry me I will marry him.

I don't think you can help who you fall in love with...but for me it's difficult to comprehend having something in common with someone a generation older than me AND be attracted to them sexually. I know it's possible because many people have, I just don't see it happening for me. Would I marry them?

If I found myself in this position and truly loved that person...yes, I would marry them.

I have actually fallen in love with someone 7 years older than me...and its complicated!

Obviously one can do because love is the most important part of your life and you can't live without your best part in this world.

Yes, if that person was my soul mate...definately yes. Age isn't that important.

YepAnd since my answer was too short - "Yep" againIt's usually a problem of the maturity of the younger partner, I think. And by maturity I mean just that, not how old they are, but what and how they think, of you, themselves, working life, the world and money and children and what to expect as you both get older and what you like to do, whether it's together or not and on and on....BUT if I was say 16 and the other person was 36 ***bad idea alert***36 marrying a 56 year old is OK to meGot it?

When i'm old enough to marry, that would depend on the person.

Yes I would marry someone who is 20 years my senior. Sometimes love hits you in strange ways. I have been in relationshipw with older woman and they have taught me alot about people and life.

Age really is just a number but also indicates life experiences. These life experiences can be very beneficial in a marriage and can help keep a couple together. They would still have to have their sexy on!

I think it depends on the age you are when you find this person. For example, I think it would be inappropriate for a 20 year old to marry a 40 year old, but a 40 year old and a 60 yr old seems a lot different. Personally I want someone that I can grow with, and experience big life moments with like buying a first house, marriage, kids, whereas an older person has already been through all of that.

Love can happen at any stage of life to any one but at stage if you are already married you have some limitations so you cannot marry but love is a free bird the age factor does not matter neither the marriage factor.

Well someone 20 years younger than me fell in love with me and we got married - that was over 5 years ago.

I personally wouldn't. But have nothing against others who choose to do so.

No, I would never fall in love with anyone 20 years older than me. They don't call it "robbing the cradle" for nothing.

I think there are no limits in love that how much we must love someone or how much we will go close him/her. So I would prefer!

Its a very choice whether you want to get married or not....age has got nothing to do with it.

Yes, if I could see beyond the crazyness of Falling in Love and know we had enough love and respect between ourselves to build a solid relationship. The years don't matter. But I have to admit, given my age, he would be pretty old and the marriage might be shortened by his age.

My wife wouldn't be too happy if I did...but if I was not married and found someone and fell in love, age would not be something I would consider. To me, if there is enough commonality there to generate love, years dwindle away. Besides, it seems the older we get, the closer those age gaps get and we find we have a lot in common based on our experiences and interests.

Short answer is: yes.

Yes, I think it would be fine to marry someone 20 years older.

Love is always a mindless game--it can occur any time anywhere, but marrying is different issue--if you are rich 85 years old man/woman, you will find 100 hundreds of opposite or same sex people are waiting for you-if you are poor 80 years old, I guess it is hard to find anyone whom you can call friend,But if you at this stage if you get somebody who is 20 year younger want to marry you--you should definitely go for it--ITS simply TRUE love.

My parents have a 25 year age difference between them. They have been married for over 25 years. We have had a wonderful family life and always able to work through the normal problems of family life.My father says the only consideration should be, to realize that when the older partner, most often the man, gets above 60 year of age, there may be considerations that make one partner or the other sad that the age difference exists.

The love is still there but, depending on the health of either party, life can become a bit harder. Basically if the love is there - go for it.

Well, in my opinion, the idea of been with somebody 20 years older is just disgusting, but by the end of the day, there is really nothing wrong about it. If somebody is right for you, then he/she is right for you. It is that simple, disregards to how other people think and feel about it.(Including me, who is getting the creeps, because of it.).

I don't really like the idea of being with an older man in any way at all, but I also say "never say never".

I don't want to think about marriage right now. However, I have always stood by the saying that love is blind. It doesn't know age.

Norms tend to make me shudder when I think of myself in such a situation. However, sometimes, the increase in maturity and wisdom is something to be desired, and can enhance a romantic relationship.

Love the emotional condition do not know the difference between the age or differences, but in the the marriage must be approved intellectual, physical and moral I think he can not marry with the existence of this difference in age.

Yes. Love is love. Not a number or a statistic.

We can fall in love with any race, age, ethnicticity, etc.

I can't say that I can always predict the future or know the actions I will or will not make. With that statement presented, at least as of this current moment - only if it was Marisa Tomei.

Yes I would. I don't think age should matter in a relationship. As long as that person makes you happy and you want to spend the rest of your life with that person.

Just remember make sure you truly love that person before you make such a big step as marriage.

Yes untill it demands the sacrifice of other relations. None of the definition defines love as demanding relation in fact it defines it as a giving relation.

No.. definitely no.. Because there would be a barrier of communication.

My mom and my father's age gap is 26 years. If you're in love, I guess age won't matter at all... :)).

No. I won't. I once fell inlove w/ a man 13 years older than me and I had to let him go.

I just can't bear the thought of living after he dies. I know it sounds negative but that is the reality.

Love overlooks differences. I can say that our hearts has its own mind to choose what it wants. Marrying person despite your age gap does not matter as long as your reason is love.

At this point in life, with many life lessons behind me.........I could " love" someone without marriage ( lifetime committment)..........I would now like to rid myself of committment and promises. Age has NOTHING to do with it...........wisdom and self reliance, self confidence does. At 20.............who remembers such things?

Love overcomes all things and age is one of them.

I know what's on your mind. Most of the people doing that today is just for the sake of money. But there are still some that marries their partner even though they are much older because they love each other.

I will marry that someone even though he is 20 or more years older than me. The feeling of being in love is unexplainable. You have to feel it in order for you to know it.

Yes! I will.

Age doesn't matter because matter is anything that occupy space and has a mass... I'll marry him if I really love him.

When people fall in love they don't care about the age. They love the person. So yeah I will marry.

:).

Yes! The age is just a number! And that person understand me and I understand him , so its okay!

I think it just normal :) and love is blind!

Of corse if your love is true then then it is ment to be, love spreads through any distants, love is blind, love is unbelevible, love is magical, love is amazingly unpredictible, and love has no boundaries!

Love knows no boundary, no limitations. In the name of love everything is possible and equal. Age doesn't.

If I truly love the person, I will marry him regardless of his age. That's for sure.

Of course I would, Age does not matter. Its simply a number! X.

Of course I would. My husband is currently 10 years younger than me. I never dreamed I would marry someone younger.

Age doesn't matter if you love someone.

It's very easy to find out....if you love him/her then of-course you should. Age doesn't really matter.

Its case to case basis if both of you are in love with each other why not marry her/him,age is not important its the heart that counts..marriage is a life time obligation. Living in one roof for life without love is sacrificing..building a family is a journey. You will never felt fulfillment when you end up in a wrong guy.. in practical aspect woman always marry man older than her because of wealth and security,love is on process of developing affection, at end love will grow and harmony can smell out in the air and love will follow later..

Yess, i'm always in love with those who older than me.

Yes, I will. As long as my mom and dad approve it and they got along well. Well, it's not that I have mom or dad complex, but, I love my mom and dad, so yeah...

No, I would not marry someone 20 yrs older because their way of looking at life , habits ,likes and dislikes is way different than a younger person. Kind of more subtle.

I would definately not have a problem falling in love with someone with that large of an age gap.

Would the age make a Difference example I am 69 years old and no way in hell could I see myself with a 49 year old man. {My daughter is that age. } {the 20 years' difference?

Love is free from boundaries of caste, age, religions, country. It is pure as God's prayer. Once you fall in love this hostile world around you looks more beautiful.So once you fell in Love with someone who loves you too then age, caste, religion does not matter.

May be he/she is older or elder if it is true love then one will definitely marry him/her.

If i'm really in love, if there are some real special feelings, yes I will.

I believe love is blind and someone may think it can happen. But for me, I will not. No reason, just because I am realistic I cannot imagine how lonely I will be in the future.

I cannot stand my lover left earlier before me.

Love has no age it just happens so why don't we marry someone who we love.

Yes I will. Love is unconditional and no boundaries. Age doesn't matter too.

If you love each other I believe everything will go smoothly.

YeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeS! I will must marry... coz everything is fare in love and war.

No, that's old enough..... in tagalog term KULUBOT.

Our Indian tradition does not support such type relations.

You can always divorce. To make a point, I don't think marrying is the real issue here; the issue is, can you love someone who is 20 years older? And apparently that issue is not an issue since the question is making it clear that "if you fall in love" "would you marry them?

" Why not marry them if you are in love?

I would not. Someone that much older than I would be close to death - not much future in a guy in like that. LOL(Besides, even as old as I am, I don't want feel like I'm with "some old guy old enough to be my father".

Well, uncle, maybe. " :) ) I wouldn't fall in love with someone that old, because I'd see him exactly as I've described ("like an uncle") - and that'd be really, really, creepy.

So if they loved me back then I guess I would just hang out with them. But 20 years is a big difference in age which does not really matter unless a teenager loves 35 year old! But to answer your question, yes I would marry them!

If you r in prepared to live with someone 20 year older then go for that...as for me if I fell in love I would rather make a good friendship with them than getting tied up..

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