If you received a secret valentine you knew was not from your significant other, would you tell him or her?

Yes. Ding it from him will probably make him more upset and think that something fishy is going on. By telling him, I show him that there's nothing to worry about and that I'm honest and open with him.

If he has a problem with it, then it's not my problem, it's his, because it is irrational to be jealous of a stranger who I don't even know! If he's angry, then I'll ask him to be reasonable and if he can't, maybe it is a sign of something wrong with him. I don't like possessive or jealous partner.

I am not possessive at all, I respect his space and I need my space.

Yes. I would probably make a joke about how someone is really setting themselves up for disappointment, and then if it was candy or something, I would share it with my boyfriend. I would also take it as a sign that I need to be a little bit more obvious with people that I'm in a serious relationship, to prevent anything like that from happening again.

I would definitely worry that if I hid it, it would seem that I was secretly encouraging the person, and thus trying to keep a relationship of some kind from my boyfriend.

Yes, I would definitely tell my spouse or partner that another person had sent me a secret valentine, although I had no idea who it was. I don’t think my husband would be jealous or even mad about me receiving a Valentine’s surprise from a secret admirer, as long as I was not in any way involved. At the most, he would likely find it flattering that another man thought his wife was desirable.

Chances are we would both shrug it off (if we never found out who sent the Valentine) and have a few giggles over the occurrence. No big deal at all. On the other hand, not telling him would not only be unnecessary but would also likely arouse suspicion and doubt in his mind if he were ever to find out, or if you did have a secret admirer who proceeded to send you additional presents in the future.

And of course, if there were a stalker out there trying to entice you or make contact with you, you are certainly better off having told somebody (especially your significant other) than if you didn't.

Of course I would. First it might just induce a bit of healthy jealousy, but I would never hide anything from them. If they found out and I hadn't told them first, they'll assume that there may be something else going on.

Better to put any assumptions to rest than to leave the possiblity of any miscommunication. If you have nothing to hide, there's no reason not to tell them.

Yep, I would. I'd want to know who it was, and we might have a better shot at figuring it out together. If you don't let your significant other know and they find out about it, they may wonder why you never mentioned it.

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