If your dating someone but our confuse about your ex-boyfriend and keep thinking about him what should do?

Youre not necessarily desperate for him.. but you do need to leave him alone for a while. Guys are weird like that.. they need alot more space than women do. Im not sure why you guys broke up but if you do want a chance again, stop all contact with him.

If he really loves you, he will start to miss you and come back. Or at least talk to you as a friend. But you need to give it a chance to breathe, and give him space.

Show him that you can be independent without him and if you have him on facebook or anything, avoid updating your status to anything sad or depressing. If you feel the need to update, write something like, outt with the girls.. or movie!.. something "monotone" so that he doesn't think youre secretly trying to get to him (yes, guys think that :S) I know its REALLY hard to do but you need to stop trying to contact him. You are just pushing him farther and farther away.

Hope this helps. Good luck girl <3.

God, I so know what that is, I am still emailing my ex as well. I'm not txting anymore, coz I got rid of his mobile number, so that I could resist the temptation! Lol I'm telling you, it's bad.

But then again don't be so hard on yourself dear, it is hard to find it in ourselves to move on when we love unconditionally, and we do. It happens to both men and women, there are no gender differences when the matter refers to "unconditional love", we all do so the same way, and it has nothing to do with low self esteem, it's just part of the process. One day we will stop trying to reach out for them, and we will finally be able to let it go, until then it's a process, and it's legitimate.

Stop being so hard on yourself, it's already enough that you should be heart broken, you don't need anymore discomfort on top of that. Be kind to yourself, and accept that txting him is just part of the process right now, and that it won't always be like that.

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