I'm 18, should I lose my virginity to a 19 year old guy that has had 22 sexual partners?

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Very well do it. That guy will have 23 hits to his credit. Leave him girl.

My dear if you have to ask this question then the obvious answer is no.

If you even need to ask this question you shouldn't even be having sex.

I would have to say no. Obviously he's a predator.

Heck no! He's a player. He will leave you after he gets what he wants and won't stick around for more.

Get rid of him. Yes, my man has had 22 sexual partners, but he is 31 and I am no virgin.

That would be a very big no. You would not be happy and to him you would end up being another notch on the bed post. Trust me hold on to that V-card and you won't regret it.

Its just not worth it to throw it away on some guy like that.

You don't have to do anything you don't want. Losing your virginity just to make a guy happy is not a good reason. Only do it if you want to.

That he had 22 sexual partners at least means he is not unexperienced, although when a guy says 22 it usually means 3. Make sure that he is patient and goes as slow as you want to. Make him wear a condom! No matter how much he says he is clean, tested, and it feels so much better without a condom.

Only on your terms, or else it's over for him.

Like someone else said, just the fact that you had to ask proves that you aren't ready. Not to mention the 22 other partners! Don't risk getting an STD just to lose your virginity.

If hes only 19 but has been with that many people, he probably won't think twice about adding more people to that list- even if he says he's with you. Make sure you know what you're doing, that you trust the guy and remember that losing your virginity is a big deal. Wait as long as you need to.

Just remember : 88% of males between age 16-24 have std's they don't know about.

Thanks for the advice..I needed it..plus I haven't lost it..which is an Awesome thing :).

You have to do what you feel like. It doesn`t matter how many sexual relashionships he had. This is only about you and what you want.

I’ve been dating this guy for about a month and a half now, and I ended up losing my virginity to him. We’ve had sex twice now, and the going’s been good, but he’s under the impression that he wasn’t my first even though I told him well otherwise, and he was shocked when I’d originally told him I was still a virgin. I’m 25 years old (shocking in itself, but I feel his shock had less to do with my age and more to do with my looks), and I’m no idiot about sex– very well-read and informed girl here!

– but I was definitely a stranger to it before him, which he thinks is a lie. It’s really bothering me that he refuses to believe me and has even said he doesn’t know what he can trust about me, especially with the virginity. I don’t think he would have cared whatsoever if I wasn’t a virgin, but he really was my first!

Why can’t he just believe me? This really just comes down to the guy not getting that this is bothering you. First, he probably can’t believe it.

It is very rare. I believe you, but I can’t really blame another guy for being skeptical. Second, he probably thinks it’s “safer” to just assume you weren’t a virgin.

Guys will never put themselves in a position to be played as a chump, and assuming that you weren’t a virgin prevents that (even if he’s wrong). He doesn’t have a problem thinking you’re not a virgin. He would have a problem if he did think you were a virgin and then found out you weren’t.

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