I'm a 40yr old woman dating a 30yr old man. problem is, he doesn't know my age, should I tell him?

I dated a 39 year old when I was 19 who had 14 and 16 daughter and Son. I dated a 25 year old when I was 20, she has 3 kids under 3... Now at 25... I would not date anyone who have kids... i've got full grasp on my emotions and self control, not only that i've pushed my standards right up... well they was high before.. but now if a Woman has kids, no thanks. Yes it can work, it depends how psychologically developed BOTH parties are!

However I don't recommend it.

I think you're saying "it is a problem," but I disagree. There are so many guys out there who date women YOUNGER than their youngest daughters, never mind just younger than their OLDEST. There are so many who have platonic friendships and/or friendships (genuine) with someone half their age and it works, so why wouldn't another kind of relationship work?

It could if the people were right for each other, met each other's needs, made each other happy. It does not mean there is anything emotionally wrong with either one.

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